what do you think ladies

[bubzbeauty29]

Okay well me n my baby's father are split and he doesn't check on me or anything. He hasn't bought a thing for the baby...i been buying clothes diapers and i'm about to order baby crib online. Idk but to me it seems like he doesn't care for the baby inside me. What would u ladies do? Because if he isn't helping or being around i honestly don't want him on there the day i give birth

[Newmommyonboard]

Girl lol me and my bd split he got a new gf everything,. He doesnt check me on me or anything!!! All you can do is say eff it i guess

[bubzbeauty29]

Thank you!

[kramelia]

I think this is a really hard decision to make. Plenty of guys dont really attach or do anything with the baby till its actually here, its a normal reaction even with good dads and especially when you split as a couple. So it doesnt necessarily mean he shouldnt be allowed to see his son born. But this is a big deal for you and you deserve to have it be exactly how you want it to and only have people who have been supportive and loving there, whatever you want during labor you should get!  Tough decision,  ill pray for ya!

[OctoberBaby5]

Child support

[alexx1216]

I agree. He doesn't deserve that privilege of seeying his baby be born.

[bubzbeauty29]

He said he was going to be there for my daughter too but i feel like his already showing he isn't going to be there at all

[new_mommy_to_be]

I feel like he can be there because my bd says he'll be here for our daughter but he sure as hell will not be in the room!

[new_mommy_to_be]

Exactly how i feel! Amen mama !