I dont know what to do...

[Trainermom]

I'm feeling so alone and lost.  The father and I are no longer together although I still very much love him.  It's a messy situation and I dont see us working things out unless he grows up some.  I get blamed for everything and I know my hormones are making me different (32 weeks), but he just abandoned me because he didn't want to deal with it.  Now, I'm not even excited about this baby.  I know I will love it but I'm afraid that I will still have these feelings after he us born.

[Trainermom]

Ugh. I don't want him to be there, I know how terrible I'll look and I dont want him seeing me like that plus I'll still have all those hormones! I wish they understood how we felt, it's so easy for then to walk away...

[gokuangel]

I feel the same so i understand! i didnt know i could have a baby so mine was VERY unplanned! i dont feel like he abandoned us but we have tried and tried to make something out of a sticky situation and it hasnt happened and i understand the not being excited i feel like my babys daddy sucked all the fun out of all this! and my family wants me to be thrilled especially when they know how long i tried for when i used to be married!  what makes me feel bad is now we re apart for the 3rd time he s packing up all stuff and going to another state! he s not even staying till I have the baby and he s taking his oldest boy with him for a whole month he didnt even tell me if they would stop in and see me and the baby when he brings his boy back thats hard i feel like not even telling him when i get admitted to the hospital IDK!!

[Raevicious]

This is my first and he left when I told him, so I feel your pain

[Trainermom]

Thanks ladies!  This will be my second, I have a wonderful 5 year old, so I guess my feeling is never finding someone to spend my life with besides my children.  I am a very independent person and have been raising my son on my own pretty much the entire time, which is why he is no longer in our life.  I just thought this one was different in so many ways.  I hope everything changes after he is born.

[1234125]

My bf of two and a half years left me four months pregnant and is currently seeing multiple other girls.. I know exactly how you feel the part couple months have been the hardest thing I've every done. Being alone and pregnant is scary and sad and so lonely. The further into my pregnancy I get I realize I'm all my baby has, and I know even though this isn't what I wanted, that im going to be the best mom I can for my son because its not his fault my life is on the path it is. Keep your head up! I promise you its not easy but you will be stronger in the end and its gets a little easier everyday

[kaalaharvey]

As soon as u see your baby u will feel the best feeling ever. The fact that your BD isn't there will matter some, it happened to me, so make sure u have people who love u around u all the time after u give birth. Good luck!