I need some advice and help.

[Itssnowing]

Hello, I am 17 years old.  Me and my boyfriend of a little less than a year fool around almost weekly.  We always make it a point that he fingers me first (with his pants on), and after, I pleasure him.  He always cums last, and it is nowhere near my vagina.

For the past few months, I have been going through endless pregnancy scares as it goes closer and closer to my period.  My period comes eventually, but it scares me nonetheless.

I am not on a pill, and my periods are usually 30 days apart and very irregular.  Last month, I had two periods in a month. (last one on the 23rd of October.)

On the 13th of November, I had a little brown spotting.  This sudden sight in my underwear has caused me to go into shock for a while, and I am not sure of what my "regular" discharges have been like.  After I changed underwear, I have been having white discharge.

Please respond.  I am a worrying and stressful type of person.  Thank you.

[Itssnowing]

Thanks, alaysha.  Today is the 29th day, and still no sign.  I have still been incredibly stressed out (with many things, not just this...yet this seems to come into subconcious thoughts many times--I've had dreams about having my period.)

I've talked it over with my boyfriend, and we both agree that I can not be pregnant.

However, I am curious about my irregular cycle.  Usually, I discharge frequently (always), but for the past few days, I have been experiencing very few discharge and barely any clear-like clots.  I have been having stomach aches, and I have been cranky (although, all of these could be from being very stressed).

Is it possible that having two periods in October could have offset my cycle and cause me to miss this one?  I have not actually started noting and observing my cycles until this September.

[alaysha]

If you have never had sexual intercourse than it is pretty much safe to say that you are not pregnant. In order to get pregnant sperm has to be able to get inside your vagina so since he cums no where near there I would say that you are safe. Also before periods or while ovulating its possible to get white discharge or sometimes brown discharge if your periods are irregular. Try not to stress about it its all normal.

[Itssnowing]

I'm sorry, I do not know how to edit on this forum.  I would just like to add on that I have never had sexual intercourse.