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I really need advice - am I crazy?
Long story short...
My boyfriend has been hiding an Instagram account from me for months now. Last night I found it and saw his activity history. He added a TON of females and favorited a lot of pictures of females. He commented on a few pictures telling the women they look beautiful or he liked their outfits and it looked good on them. I am furious. Is it crazy for me to be upset? Am I being too controlling? We have been together for five years. Social networking has been a problem in the past. What do I do?
My boyfriend has been hiding an Instagram account from me for months now. Last night I found it and saw his activity history. He added a TON of females and favorited a lot of pictures of females. He commented on a few pictures telling the women they look beautiful or he liked their outfits and it looked good on them. I am furious. Is it crazy for me to be upset? Am I being too controlling? We have been together for five years. Social networking has been a problem in the past. What do I do?
Hell no you're not crazy i would start beating his @** foreal. That's very disrespectful to do. Like you're already pregnant that's enough right there.....sorry u have to deal with it
Cut him off he shouldn't be making you feel this way pregnant and don't feel unpretty when us woman are pregnant its when we most beautiful are in our lives
I really appreciate all the responses ladies good to know I'm not alone in situations like this
Ive been with my bf for almost 5 years now and social networking has been a problem as well. But nothing ever like that! That's ****** up that he did that if I caught my bf doing that I would of broke the phone and him! Smh your better then that and hez ****** up for doing that!
I went through something similar with my husband and Facebook he deleted his and now we have a joint account
He shouldn't been hiding anything at all from you!!! I'm so sorry to hear that you're going thru such thing but been there and done that. Its not too controlling its about respecting and knowing each others boundaries!!
Id be mad too.. smack him lol jk i dd that to my husband.we've been thru the same stuff...make his erase it
Oh no! Confront him... guys seem to think that it's okay to just flirt with females. My boyfriend did that and it pissed me off but he didn't think it was a big deal UGHH...
My bfs phone would've gotten smashed haha. And he knows it we've been together for 4 years. And we don't hide anything from each other. I'd be furious too especially if social networking has been a problem before. I'd lose my shizz.
I'd be so pissed, you don't deserve to go through this. It's hard enough for us to deal with our changing bodies and even more so without our man's support.
I would call him out! I had a similar problem earlier this yr, and I told him It is very inappropriate to be "liking" girls pictures on any type of social network, let alone commenting things like that. Ask if he would like it if u did the same thing by.liking guys pictures and saying how sexy they look? It's not right, I hope u work it out, u don't need to be stressing! Best of luck!
Oh heck no sweetie yes confront him put ur foot down n make sure he knows how u feel I don't let my bf pull that friends from high school crap lol but good luck
If Social Network Has Been A Problem For Your Relationship Then You Should Ask Him About It , Ya'll Been A Couple For 5 Yrs He Has No Reason On Hiding Anything From You . One Thing He's Doing Is Breaking Your Trust You Have For Him & Not Trusting Somebody ***** In A Relationship You Dont Wanna Go Day By Day Stressing Yourself Over His Mistakes.
They are local girls - when I confronted him he told me most of them are friends from high school. He has never ever mentioned them before. None of them are added on his Facebook account. We haven't been having sex because he told me he feels uncomfortable. I have been feeling really unpretty lately and to see him call another woman beautiful made me sick at my stomach. Thanks for the reinforcement ladies, I wanted to make sure I'm not blowing it totally out of proportion.
No I don't think your crazy at all, I would be very pissed, I think you should sit him down and tell him how upset you are and how that made you feel, I'm sure he wouldn't be happy if you did that? And obviously now your not going to feel as confident as you probably felt before.. speaking from experience myself, its not nice, wish you the best and hope it all works out :) xx
Omg. No you're not crazy!!!!!! I would be LIVID! if you love him, make him shut down the social stuff. If he loves you, he will. If he argues, cut him off. He will learn. You shouldn't have to deal with that crap. It's degrading to your self esteem..some men just never get it.
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