Tomorrow I will be in the double digits. I feel like it was only last month I found out I was pregnant. I am super excited that in less then 4 months I will be meeting my little girl and hold her in my arms. My question is,I decided that when I got pregnant and the baby daddy decided he no longer wanted to be with me. That I would give him a chance at being a dad and being around,that he had to earn the last name. Well tomorrow is that day. I haven't seen him since my first appointment. That was back in September . He texts me once a week with the same question "how are you feeling" I feel he hasn't done jack sh!t. He did not even come to find out the gender or any appointments or er visits even though I tell him at least two weeks before. He did buy the car seat and stroller when he got his bonus at work and had them sent to my house. But I feel buying things and being here are not the same thing. He hasn't told his current girlfriend,nor his parents he is going to have a kid. I am so frustrated. So I have decided that he doesn't get the privilege of having my daughter with his last name. Nor do I want him in the room. He doesn't get to show up in the 11th hour and get the joy of things. Am I wrong thinking this way. Am I being to much a whitch in thinking this way? I want the best for my daughter and I feel he has not proven to me that he will be best for my daughter. Any advice would be amazing I am sitting here crying again thinking this all threw and sorry so long just need to get this out of my head