OT-But OMG!! I hate him!!

[Kelly87]

So me and DF have been fighting all day today. He just called his mom to come get him and he is saying that he is taking Brayden with him but I dont want to. He wont even let me hold Brayden. I have been trying to get Brayden from him but I dont want Brayden to get hurt so im just leaving it alone but I dont want him to bring Brayden with him... He cant take care of him by himself and I dont know what I would do without him... What could I do to make sure he doesnt take him? Can I call the cops?

[JoyRenee]

I once saw a man holding his baby from the mother (in the street in front of our house) and they were screaming and carryong on. She called the police. She kept trying to grab her baby and kept screaming, "Give him to me! I'm his mother!"

I don't know how it turned out but you need to stand up for your baby because no one else will.

[Kate798]

I really hope you have a good support system otherwise you might want to consider getting some advice (and finding out your options) from a women's crisis organization in your area.  Obviously all couples get into arguments but using your child as a "bargaining chip" is over the top.  I question your DF's maturity level and whether he has your child's best interest in mind.  Don't even get me started on his mother...I'm so sure that he got her involved!!  Unless you were harming your child they have no right to try and take him away from you. YOU ARE THE MOTHER!!!!!!!

Please take the time you need to evaluate and re-evaluate your situation.  Perhaps this is an isolated incident but if is not, get out while you can for your own sanity and the safety of your children.  (The stress on your pregnancy alone cannot be healthy!)   There are people who can help you deal with all of this.
Good luck.

[Kelly87]

Thanks for your replies. When she came she was fighting that she wants to take him and i said ABSOLUTLY NOT!!! She went to hold him and i didnt let her.... she was p i s s e d,,,, I dont care though... her son is making me live through h e l l lately. I have a 4 1/2 month old and im 9 1/2 weeks pregnant i dont need this stress and they dont understand.... i hope they dont call for a few days.. we need time away from each other

[alaysha]

I've had to do it. Call the cops.

When the mom comes to pick him up do you think its possible that she might let the baby stay with you? Calling the cops might be drastic if you guys are only arguing but make her understand that he is your son and you dont think he should be used in an argument like your fiance is using him. Unless you soon to be mother in law is a complete b I think she would let the baby stay with you.

[Darkestlight]

9 times out of 10  depending on the state most cops will tell the father to leave the baby with the mother. In kentucky... a cop wont let a father take a child away from a mother unless there is absolute proof that the mother is unfit. I'd call the cops and if my husband tried to take allie i'd be arrested anyways cause i'd beat the sh*t outta him.

[Michele, Katy, TX]

I agree with elisha123!!  You can call the cops.  I had to do it with my ex many years ago.

[elisha123]

oh yes you can call the cops!!

[aliciaandtrue]

yes you can call the cops but unless you have full custody there is nothing they will do to be honest...they may suggest he leave him there but in the eyes of the law they cant make him he is his son as well as yours