In need of help

[nique318]

I finally told my mother that I was pregnant and she took it very hard. It is now going on day 3 and we still don't really talk but the regular good morning and good night. How can I help her through this? I feel like I have disappointed her. How can I tell my grandmother I am pregnant? She will most definitely be mad at me. She didn't expect me to get married or pregnant until I was 30 and right now I am 24 years of age with a fiancee and a baby on the way.

[xxxlerxxx]

You're a grown woman! You're creating life inside you. Now more then ever you should feel stronger! Don't let anything bring you down. & your main support is your fiance. And that's all that should matter...u, baby & ur fiance...your new family! Best wishes!

[nique318]

Thank you everyone for ur advice it isis very helpful and it helps me get through this depression I am going through

[nique318]

I am not sure how far along I am right now. I have a doctors appointment next week. I told ny mother I wanted to speak with her; my fiancee was there also. I just told her how I found out I was pregnant.

[tana643]

Thank you for your post.  I'm 9 weeks and I'm not sure how to tell my mother cuz I feel she's going to be mad cuz I'm not married and or engaged I don't have a house and yatta ya.   But I know I have to tell her soon and my dad. But may I ask how far along are you and how did you tell your mother I need advise and fast.

[jellybean430]

You are an adult! Don't let them spoil your excitement & put un needed stress on you. They will both come around & see what a joy and blessing your baby will turn out to be :)

[ziziestanley]

At the end of the day you will not be on your own. you will be amazed with the support you will get from friends and even family. it is important that you don't get upset over it and this baby will bring you and others joy. Your a mum now and you should remember now your baby number 1 and no one else matter x

[Heatherm4]

Don't let it get to you. Life happens and doesn't always go as planned. They will come around eventually. And if you are happy, then that's all that should matter to them. If they are going to continue to give you heck about it, then I would tell them you don't need the negativity in your life.

[lisa1905]

ur an adult , dont worry about their aproval , oh well if they get happy then its good , and if they dont get happy over it oh well they will get over it. ur in charge of ur life.when i told my mom she got happy  but now she does not aprove me for anything that i do. just stay strong and be happy :)