It's hard on you and the father of your child when you get pregnant. It sometimes takes a while to set In for guys and it ***** bcuz right now you need all the support you can get. It ***** but try not to stress. Try to find a family member ( mom) or friend you can count on. Do your best to be there for him and hopefully he comes around. Sure he's just a little over whelmed. It's not your fault. Guys can be selfish sometimes. Hang In there!