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363110 tn?1340920419

ahh! Hubby's driving me nuts! %50 for TTC %50 against

Well, I'm right around the time of ovulation and DH keeps going back and forth, never saying he wants to TTC #3 but for example he made the comment to TJ today saying "you want a baby sister?". this man is gonna make me go nuts!

before I didn't want to TTC but the more I thought about it the more I've wanted to and the more sense it has made. I should know in about 1-1 1/2w if we did conceive or not.

Wish me luck!
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Awhh bless him. I cant sleep without the smell of my other half... so i stole his deodorant :) haha... and spray my room before I sleep haha... and his pillow..
Its turned into a habbit, He wonders where all his stuff goes, comes to my house, its all in my bed as a lump LOL


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363110 tn?1340920419
lol. I didn't know this but apparently back when TJ was sick and I was staying a week at a time at the hospital DH couldn't get to sleep unless he snuggled my pillow and smelled my shampoo on it :)
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1303813 tn?1303159362
My boyfriend has had Big Ted since he wwas born, so for 23 years he has had his Bigted and I stole him. Now I cant sleep without him, But my other half WONT give him to our Peanut, he wont be able to sleep without it... But he is at the moment cause I stole it at christmas, I also have all of his Jumpers in my bed, Made a little Boyfriend Lump in my bed... I cant sleep without that their either Unles the other half is there haha...

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363110 tn?1340920419
LMAO!!!! I named my stuffed animals, I have Bearbear and bunny bunny, I've had bunnybunny for almost 8 yrs since our first easter. she'll go to TJ when he's bigger. I still sleep with them and if I don't have them I can't sleep well!
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Yeah we started with 2.. as baby babies... week old, and now they are massive the size of a side plate. And average turtle food, Live shrimp, froze shrimp, dried shrimp. Crickets, Lettuce.
I have a zoo of animals I have a woodland turtle, 2 snakes, 2 tarantulas 5 geckos (Lizards) 2 Hamsters, Hissing cockroaches (We use them as food now)
But I have LOADS and a tortoise, And they're names are themed Names, My turtles are from Nemo we have Crush, Squirt,Gil,Bloat, Mr Turtle and Sharkbaite, Snakes name up the name Pikaboo, My woodland turtle is after a gun, My Boyf thinks it makes her cool, the Geckos are names after friends, the Hamsters from Ironman, the spiders i have NO idea my tortoise is a hermans tortoise called Herman... the cockroaches dont have Names because they die every 5 days but breed every 10 LOL If that makes sense.....

Oh and my kittens i have Splash and Splosh who will make kittens and We'll name them Drip and Drop :). And I have an underwater Lizard Salomander thing called Spilsh. and 2 yellow bellied Toads called Pebbles and Bambam...
And If i have a Son he is called Harry out of spiderman! Because I will NOT let my other half call it Bruce Banner Wilson! NO WAY! LOL. So its Harry-John Stephen we are carrying on my boyfriends name too.

And the turtles are in a 7ft Tank


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363110 tn?1340920419
u have 6 turtles? Live ones? how do you care for them and what do they eat?
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Haha, throughout this pregnancy since I had that bleeding, I've taken like 12... Whoooops. Cause i just gotta make sure its still there and its real AND i kept them all haha... LOL.

But I cant buy one for a while I just brought another turtle the size of like the palm of a newborns hand. haha.

Well its for my friend but I might steal it. Its so cute.. Ive already got 6 BIGG ones though. OH.

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363110 tn?1340920419
Cassandra~ ..... I caved and tested this AM with FMU on a CB digital.............of course I got a not pregnant! UGH........

I'll go buy another later in the week, I'm gonna make sure I have no money to take a test OR i'll buy $$ tests to tide me over hehe
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Wooohooo, blue baby dust :) You can have my pink...

take a testt in a few weeks

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363110 tn?1340920419
K so maybe I  can rely on CM..... last night and today I've had super watery discharge. I don't get EWCM but I get watery kind....with both babies...... :)
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363110 tn?1340920419
Cassy~ You can have any blue dust sticking to me from my 2 boys!!!!! :)
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Ill send you my SIL pink baby dust she doesnt need it anymore.. She had her baby haha.. so you can use theres.
I know what you mean about Men... This is kinda the same thing, But after my termination my other half when we got back together about 2 weeks later, I went to get an implant and he said no cause he wants a little one. I was like YOU WHAT???? I WENT THROUGH ALL THAT FOR NOTHING?? I WENT THROUGH THAT BECAUSE I WAS ILL AND WE WAS NOT READY (although we wasnt together) AND EVERYTHING, AND NOW YOU WANT ONE!!!! ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME. I acctually didnt talk to him for a day. He upset me so much. I think its because his brother  was having a baby and he was REALLLLLY brooody. So he decided he wanted one.! I went off my head. When you want something but cant have it for reasons or something they dont want it, so when you dont want it, or dont have it anymore they do.
MEN!,cant live with them, cant live without them. LOL.


PINK BABY DUST.... LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS, you can have mine too cause I want a boy. Hehe.

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363110 tn?1340920419
BTS~ I can't do notes cause my MIL lives with us, and if I end up preggo we don't intend to tell family until around 8-12 weeks just because I feel we're gonna need time to get used to the idea.  and yea, men like dirty!    Actually in the last week we BD'd about 5x, and NORMALLY we only BD 1-2x a week maximum.

I hate it when he makes those comments. he also said he's %50 for another and %50 against. when he made the comment about TJ wanting a sister, I told him it wasn't funny that he joked and pulled me this way and that on the subject. :(  I think he's beginning to come around because before it was an absolute NO.

blueeyedtabbycat~ wow! :) I think having another baby here would be great :) men are a pain in the rear about this stuff.

Normally my first preggo symptom is bloating and "fullness" as soon as I ovulate, I'm bloated now, 2 days so far and fatigued and we BD'd yesterday and the day before.

I can't go by CM or CP because they're not reliable, TMI but I'm one of those that doesn't get all "happy" down there until AFTER sex usually. I can get an O but it takes a while for the natural lubrication to kick in so we use the WET brand lube.

I had the most nutso dream! I dreampt that I took a CB digital, and it was negative then a while later I look and it says "pregnant" so i was trying to open the test to look at it then I woke up, damn. AND BEFORE YOU SAY IT I know your not to read the inside strip because they measure 2 hormones, and always have 2 lines.....

here's the odd thing...... I tested this morning, and it was BFN, however I opened the test out of curiosity and it had 2 colored lines just one was super light, barely there but definitely colored blue so not an evap.  The other times I've used a digital, it NEVER had a 2nd line if it was negative.

LADIES~ PLEASE Send me some PINK babydust! :)
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796506 tn?1370188305
Good luck! I hope that you get your beanie on the first try! ***FINGERS CROSSED***
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419158 tn?1316571604
Good luck!!! DH was kinda that way with #4 because we had just had #3. But I was ready. It had taken us so long to get pregnant with Dalton that he actually agreed to ttc when Dalton was 2 months old!!! We got our BFP on the first try! OMG! Dalton was only 3 months old!!! LOL! Anyways good luck! My baby dust be with you tonight..........................:~D
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Men......
My DH was exactly the same with #3. Then all of a sudden it was like 'we should have another baby NOW' and expected to concieve that week. Blahhhhh. Dont they know these things take a little bit of time.
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Good luck sweetie! Maybe you could put sticky notes all over the house saying "Just do it"! Or maybe something close to that but a bit more dirty lmao...dirty always gets their attention! When it comes to TTC I wish men would think with the OTHER head like they used to as teens lol.

Sometimes men just need a little push over that cliff....hopefully all works out, i'm rooting for ya!!!!
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