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sex drive, who's got it?

I know a lot of people will go thru times where they want nothing to do with sex and others who can't get enough...I had been soo sick for the past 9 weeks or so, we had sex once in the past 11 weeks lol I think I may have gotten my sex drive back..poor hubby has gone without for so long, who else has just started getting "in the mood" after the first trimester? (im 13w5d)
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3106038 tn?1346813169
I did until a couple weeks ago (I'm 34 weeks) and we would do it almost every day sometimes twice, so I feel bad that I just cut him off cold turkey xD
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3210497 tn?1349881687
I'm almost 30 weeks and I don't get horny very often, it all started when i was 3weeks, my hunger for sex dropped dramatically and i can proudly say iam a VERY sexual person always ready but not anymore sad I know but it's part of pregnancy :)
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And my thing is my husband works 12 hour days so when he wants to have sex he wants me to be on top and do ALL the work cuz hes tired from working. I dont feel like it lol. I feel bad but Id rather sleep at this point!
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I havent had a sex drive since I have been pregnant lol.. Honest to god we were like bunnies before i got pregnant (prob why im pregnant at the moment lol) but i feel HORRIBLE he wants to but i dont even want to attempt all this movement or even the energy to do it.. He must be really understanding because hes lucky if he gets some once a week now.. i pray to god my sex drive comes back soon.... its driving him nuts lol!
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Ugh im 7 weeks prego and i have no sex drive but my bf is like a rabbit he always wants it i cant say no to him :/ cuz he gets mad so i just give in and let him give it to me
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My hubby is practically begging for it lol. I used to be the one initiating everything but now I could careless about sex. And the sad part is Im only 7 weeks along. I hope it comes back...
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I want it all of the time my poor hubby is so tired because he says I wear him out.
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I'm 23 weeks and never have felt like it since day 1. Now it's mostly because it's uncomfortable for me and I end up with BH contractions afterwords.
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It comes and goes but when the drive is there my hubby soaks it up lol. And he has learned how to get my drive revved up too.
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4043310 tn?1355912647
Im always horny and want sex all the time problem is the minute we try to have sex its a big fail coz it hurts and makes me feel uncomfy
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I was anti sex until about 15 weeks and now I want it all day every day! I wanted it before but I was way too sick to try :( lol now that I want it, hubby isn't in the mood...I'm pretty sure he is pregnant too
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3224409 tn?1356206827
i do like to have intercourse... in my mind i ll be blowing off.. but as soon as it comes to having it i m dead... lol... mostly because its painful and i get really bad braxton hicks after wards... like yesterday night after intercourse i started getting braxton hicks after every 15mins.. and i was peeing again n again.. n he started moving like theres no tomorrow so i couldnt go to sleep for an hour or so... i was so scared thinking i started contractions... but they stopped... so it kind of puts me off and dh as well..
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4368956 tn?1357406071
It makes me sick right now I give it to him but I always say hurry up im getting motion sickness!!
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I did have sex drive at the begining of my pregnancy,but things got worse as entered my third trimester. The only reason I ve sex is so my dh wouldn't go without it for so long. It used to me twice a week,but now its like once a week....am 36wks....the only reason I do it now is because I need dh sperm to help soften my cervix....lol...it has become very uncomfy to do it, but hey, I need his sperm.
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Acline, have you been like that since day 1 or did you want it more after your first trimester?
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I'm ready to go at all times and I'm 22 weeks lol
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Not me! I am 23 weeks and still not in the mood!
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