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902536 tn?1326914250

trying to think positive

hey if anybody is bored, i need a friend to talk too. i got some bad news today. ;(
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wow, im sorry about this entire situation you are in right now. you are such a strong person, and so brave too, i hope all is well, and keep us all posted on how your doing, ill keep u in my prayers, God bless you
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919101 tn?1368109937
They let you drive yourself home????  

I managed to make them think I had someone waiting for me after my LEEP and drove myself the local ran off on the H1 freeway(in hawaii) I wasn't half way home yet there was an accident and I just sat in traffic crying. That was some bad pain and they didn't give me anything to take for it.

It seems like your would have been a little more invasive? Did they put you to sleep?
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902536 tn?1326914250
im ok, resting now.
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796506 tn?1370188305
Wow I am glad that you got your surgery and I know hitting deers is scary and I hope that you are okay!
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765070 tn?1384869794
Oh, Thank God that you are doing well.  I am so glad that the cancer is gone and hope for you to have a great recovery.  

Take care of yourself and keep us updated on how you are doing.
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What kind of a surgery did they do?  Was it done with local anesthetic?  I'm surprised you were allowed to drive afterwards, even if they didn't put you to sleep.
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902536 tn?1326914250
well surgury went good, on pain pills for 2 more weeks, all cancer is GONE!!! the worst part was i was able to drive home and hit a ******* deer. actually the deer hit me it ran ot of front of me. im ok but got the living **** scared out of me!
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i am so sorry i hope everything goes well and i will be thinking of you lots of hugs
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919101 tn?1368109937
I'm so sorry Sweetie, I had a Leep to remove precancerous cells..and that had me worried, I was 20 when I had it(i'm about to be 27 next month).  I have a friend who's sister just had surgery for breast cancer..she is in her 20's also. They are having great success with treatments these days. I will keep you in my prayers. Try not to stress out too badly, just concentrate on taking care of yourself.
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765070 tn?1384869794
You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.  We will all be thinking of you tomorrow as you go through your surgery.  Just keep up the faith that everything will be just fine.  

God Bless
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796506 tn?1370188305
OH you poor thing! Surgery is soooo stressful! I hope that you are going to be getting your surgery done without a hitch and will be getting back to ttc'ing very soon so you can get your bean stick soon :)
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902536 tn?1326914250
kinda wishing it was tomorrow, getting kinda nervous!
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796506 tn?1370188305
good luck!
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902536 tn?1326914250
that would be great! thanks everybody!
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796506 tn?1370188305
I will definitely be thinking of you and try hard not too worry. Maybe when all is said and done (and taken care of) then you can get back to ttcing and getting things back on track!
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902536 tn?1326914250
i will, thanks girl!
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758877 tn?1382585762
HICK CHICK on monday just know you are being thought about and i will check up on you .... SCIENCE now and days is so updated .. please have faith ... hugs and kisses FRIEND , .........
*:O) erika
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902536 tn?1326914250
i hope so too, cuz i am only 19 they are moving extremely ast. they diagnoised it on friday and monday i have surgury. im like WOW thats fast. the worst part is they found some in my breast too
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950472 tn?1246074550
Oh Goodness...I know your going through a rough time right now,and it seems like nothing can make it better!!But you will be in my prayers,and the prayers of my church...just know were all here for you!!And if you need anything,even though you dont know me...i'm here!!Just contact me anytime for ANYTHING...even if you just need to talk!!God Bless You!!
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758877 tn?1382585762
OMG hickchick, that explains alot i am sorry you are going through this ... i am sending you hugs TIGHT TIGHT hugs . please Note that everything will be fine these women on here are RIGHT please stay POSITIVE . My sister got dx with cervical cancer while preggers with my nephew .. she is CANCER FREE now .. I Hope you know you are going to be OKAY .. hugs ....

*:O) erika
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902536 tn?1326914250
thanks hun, that means alot to me
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Avatar universal
At the risk of sounding like a fool, I'd like to say never underestimate the power of positivity and mind over matter. If you can, I would advise you to get a book called "You Can Heal Your Life" by Louise Hays. Drs are amazed every day by what peoples bodies can do and heal.  

I had a LLETZ procedure and they had to remove a lot of my cervix. About a year later, a nurse was talking to me whilst doing papsmear and I told her I'd had the LLETZ. She was absolutely amazed and said it looked like my cervix grew back. She even had a doctor come in to show him.

Your in my thoughts x
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765070 tn?1384869794
I am so sorry to hear about this!  I will keep you in my prayers.  

I clean for a woman who found out she has breast cancer about 1 1/2 years ago.  She went for chemo and then for a masectomy.  Then she was having issues with her cervix and ovaries.  So the doctor sent her to have a hysterectomy.  She went to have the hysterectomy where they go in the stomach with small pinholes and a robot actually removes all the parts.  We'll as she was having it done she started bleeding really bad to the point that they had to open her up completely.  They found a softball size mass and removed it immediately.  She was devastated.  She still is going through chemo because they found two seeds still near where her ovaries once were.  But, she is doing really well and they now said that the seeds have decreased in size and that was without any chemo.  She stopped the chemo for a few months since they were doing laproscopy.  So, there is much hope.  

The reason I tell you this story is to show that even though it seems terrible, there is always hope for remission and eventually completely gone.  You are young and have such a wonderful life ahead of you so keep your chin up and hang in there.  

As far as not having insurance, Make sure that you speak to the person that is in charge of the medical bills at the hospital or clinic that you go to.  They will be able to set up a monthy billing so that you do not have to pay for it all at once.  In most cases they will set it up so that the payments are reasonable.  THey cannot deny you the procedures just because you do not have insurance.  Also, check on the web to see if their are any government grants or plans that you can get to help you.  Take advantage of the system.  It is their to help people that need it like you.  

Take care and keep us updated.  God Bless
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902536 tn?1326914250
i am 19 i will be 20 in november. and the worst part is i have no insurance!
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