Okay, we were a couple back in June. Broke up mid June. My daughter was conceived on June 12. When I found out I was 2 months pregnant there was nothing I could do.
If any of y'all had a baby daddy who put weed over their child you'd probably be more considerate. He spent 200 dollars on a machine to grow his pot. It's a huge cubicle that comes with chemicals. But can't buy a car seat or stroller or anything. Wth? For the millionth time. I was on birth control. When I got pregnant we weren't together. When I found out, I repeat, we were not together. I don't know how many times I have to say it. I didn't chose this man. I chose a hardworking man and we were happy on base until he made a bad decision and got caught. The reason I left was because instead of learning a lesson he saw it as a reason to continue now that he wasnt working for the government.
I wouldnt call the cops.. im sure when u decided to be with this guy he was doing it? If he wants to do all that let him do his drugs and just leave him. Tell him if he wants to see his baby he has to straighten up. Trust me, getting the cops involved esp drug related with child custody and all can get really reallyUGLY. You know whats right for your baby and if he cant buck up n do the right thing, leave him and file for child support.. this is just my opinion but good luck in whatever u decide to do
I've tried. I've pleaded. Said if he didn't wanna be involved then to sign his rights over. He said "no"
I know you want a father for your baby but I think I would try to get him to sign over his rights
Hopefully, proud mommy. But if he didn't man up after losing benefits, a career and a wife then I don't know what's his breaking point because this baby isn't making him change his mind either.