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sad vent..

It looks like I'm going to have this baby while were still living with my husbands father,,and me and my son will have to find another place to live every other weekend while his little sisters are here. He refuses to save money to get our own place..he likes living here! I'm miserable...I'm so far from my family and few friends i have..and I'm living out of my car..so me and my little Joseph will live out of Mommys car..I'm so down about this...i hate having to go through this but i have no where else to go..
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I just want to cry..now he's talking about he is going to buy a damn xbox and ****..and i told him that we need to put or priorities first..he got all mad and told me its his money blah blah blah..I'm so stressed about this whole situation..i don't know what to do any more..i can't go to my family their worse off then i am. I mean i love him..but he doesn't know how to manage money or put things into priorities..
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So sorry your going through this but how on earth is your husband gonna allow his wife an child to sleep in a car?! My motto is if im gonna struggle ill struggle alone not with a useless man by my side. But i digress.. like the ladies said apply for whatever assistance you can get an i hope everything works out for you an your family!
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Im so sorry u r going thru this and I kno exactly how u feel me my hubby and my 4 grls and bby #5(due jan27th) are moving out of our house to his parents yet once again ugh and we will have to wait til income tax time to pay off all our bills so we can afford to live on our own again :( I will keep u and ur son in my prayers.
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Yhu shld apply for section 8 & apts where rent is based on income. Do you have a job? & where are your family? Have yhu askd them for help to help yhu get on ur feet.....Im prayn for yhu tho : )
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Trust me I totally understand about a spouse not wanting to move out of their parents basement. I managed by causing big fights in the house so that he didn't want to put up with his parents. Hey whatever works right?
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You should apply for assistance to help you get a place of your own. Idk where you live but here in tn there are,many apartments that are based on income! I hope everything starts lookin up for ypu!
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