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Worse call I've ever gotten

;,,(( so I recently  found out I was prego we'll today my doc called me I was suppose Togo for my second blood test but when they called they told me that I was negitive. So I guess I had miscarried witch this is now my 3rd one witch is really breaking our hearts ! :( I haven't even been bleeding like that I hav bleed but as all of you know I've been posting on here it was never heavy nor did I have any cramping ?? It went from dark red spotting to pink to brown . And so on but they told me they were going to set me up with one of those doctor that speacialize in frequent miscarriages that help  you get prego and stay
and keep you prego .me and my fiancé are pretty upset this has all happened my first one was I'n 2011 the sec 2012 and now this one 2013 ;( I really hope this doctor can help us out me and my fiancé want to have a family raise a child more than anything in the world :( I feel like It's my fault  even those I know it's not things happen I know I do believe everything happened for a reason . But it still a huge heart ace and hurts me so bad ... Idk can any of you relate a lil I'm in need :,(
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you will have symptoms and possibly a positive pregnancy test until all the hcg is out of your system they may make you get a d and c to help you miscarry. Cause when your body doesn't miscarry naturally your body will see the dead fetus as an foreign object and you can get a nasty infection. You may have seen the sack but its possible that the baby wasn't developing right. I would wait until you talk to your doctor. I'm sorry for your loss.
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Thank you ladies but I think I'm going to take another test to be sure because when I went to my I had a sono I seen the sack.  And I still have that frequent urge to pee all the time . And still have all the some if not all the symptoms
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4592444 tn?1362029703
Oh hun. a miscarriage can be the worst feeling in the world. I hope your new doctor can help you. I lost two little babies before I had my daughter. My prayers are with you today sweetie.
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I'm so sorry :( sometimes your body.doesn't miscarry on its own which could be why you're not bleeding. Don't worry your time will come don't give up Hun.
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4251679 tn?1370305531
I'm soo sorry hun. :( I really can't imagine what you're going through.. I know sorry doesn't really help anything, I wish there was more I could do. :'(
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My husband and I had 5 miscarriages plus an ectopic before having our now 2 year old daughter. Then we lost another one between her and our now 13 day old son. My doc told me to take baby aspirin folic acid fish oil and vitamin d throughout both pregnancies and that seemed to work. Along with a prenatal as well.
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I know how you feel. My huband & I felt things were so unfair because although I had 2 daughters when we married & we had one together that for some reason we were being tested. We tried for 8 1/2 years to conceive again & had 2 miscarriages along the way. Doctors couldn't explain what was going on, but in the end we were rewarded for our faith & determination to expand our family. I'm 34 weeks today with a healthy baby boy. Both of you get a physical & see if there is a reason for your difficulties. No one should have to continue to go through this heartbreak. After 3 m/c's there is deffinitly an issue with carrying a baby. I wish u luck & prayers through this time & through your journey.
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