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im dyin over here!!!!

I'm 29 wks and my boyfriend wants nothing to do with sex..  it's killing me lol. He's extremely attractive and fit (and delicious) lol. But he's just weirded out about there being a baby in there. And I think it may be because he felt the baby move one time during sex. But i just wish he would think about my needs a little more. It's not just the satisfaction of sex I want. We ha e such a great connection with each other during sex that I really feel like that's what I crave... I guess I'll just sit and wait cause trying to initiate has went out the door after several denials... Ladies are u having any pronlems like this with the s/o
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9840853 tn?1407207261
just understand your partner. maybe he got afraid when the last time you did he feels the baby, its normal to guys to be much more worried to you and mostly to hour baby, bring him to your OB to give some advice of havig safe sex even if you are pregnant , to lessen his worries, and for you too .
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Lol my bd is so on it we have sex before bed n before work n when he not home I got my toys like I need sexual attention bad tmi but last night was amazing I peeled the paint off the walls
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Yeah my hubby was like that at first now that im further along he cant keep his hands off me its crazy 32w5d he want hurt the baby the doc told me sex would keeo the stress down and just nit to use sex toys call ur doctor and ket ur bf ask the doc it might make him feel better
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Its not like the baby will grab or bite their penises lol! Men men men!!
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Tell him sex is healthy during pregnancy if it wasnt for sex he wouldnt have a beautiful child in there in the first place . He will not harm the baby . I have the opposite lol my husband wont leave me alone when it comes to sex he seems even more attracted to me now that were having a baby . Evreyguy is diffrent . Try masterbation
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Lol. I have the same issue but my husband will go down on me or we'll watch porn together.
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Lol. I have the same issue but my husband will go down on me or we'll watch porn together.
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8364464 tn?1408312392
Same:(
My husband thinks we're putting the baby at risk.  I'm like noooo you're putting me at risk of a *itch fit if you don't give me any and he'll just start laughing.
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Yess ive had the same issues. My boyfriend thinks he will poke the baby lol i flat out told him it was unfair for me because there was nothing i could do abt it. They are ridiculous lol but i agree you probably just have to leave it be or youll just get your feelings hurt from him rejecting you, or at least i did.
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