why

[eemgee4]

Am I watching birth videos ! I'm a ftm and I'm terrified I know it will all be worth it it's just hard to not think of the pain that's awaiting :/

[eemgee4]

Yea everybody has different experiences as long as my baby is healthy and safe I'm willing to go through anything

[Chemie07]

im 37+1 right now and a few weeks ago i was so nervouse and scared about actislly being i  labor andwhat to expect but now im just in so much pain i dont even care anymore. Ive talked with my dr and she said she will guide me thru everything. Im so juat ready for my baby girl to be here and haveibg my body back to myself lol

[Griswold433]

I scare myself all the time too, I end up crying for a few minutes about how I'm going to die and every possible worse case scenario, then i get mad at my boyfriend because he's a man and all of these ridiculous things. Then I realize that no matter what happens I'll be giving birth to a beautiful human being and that's all that matters :)

[sjkennedy]

I watched birthing videos with my first and my labor was nothing like them!! They made it seem worse than it actually was!!

[eemgee4]

Thanks for the advice ladies !

[eemgee4]

I also cry in the end when the baby is out but during OMG I feel like passing out lol ahhh,  guess I'll just have to wait and see

[scillacts]

It's not bad as you think, it depends how your labor goes

[DreamaMama]

I watch birthing videos too but i dont get freaked out i cry with happiness lol hormones cant wait to have my baby:)

[Lilseamonkey]

If the dr let's you take your time with pushing you probably won't tear. But if they rush you to get baby out you'll absolutely tear or need an episiotomy. Just research it more, the less you'll be afraid.

[darthmander]

I do that to myself to. I start watching birthing videos. And freak myself out and just when the time comes stich my vag up. Lol. But like you said its worth it in the end.