Mother hates me..

[melissa_182]

Things haven't been well with my mother & father since I moved out, go married, & pregnant. I'm dead to my father & my mother thinks the worst of me she would constantly text me to insult me for getting pregnant. Well today's her bday, I called her & she treated me like crap over the phone & hung up. I don't understand why she complains that I don't call her & when I do she treats  me like I'm trash.

[melissa_182]

Thanks, I have to be strong for my baby.

[LoveMarissa]

She probably upset that u have a baby on the way and your gonna love and and it's not about her and you anymore like that.. she probably upset and jealous

[glittzprincess]

Sometimes mothers have a hard time letting go. Everyone grieves differently even being cold. Sometimes u have to be the bigger person ubtill she realizes what she has lost. Believe it or not mothers are human and make mistakes. Maybe she was hoping better for you since u are so young. Doesn't mean ur wrong just means she can't see the good in it yet. She may not be ready to accept ur a wife and a mom to be. Again u did the right thing reaching out shell come around and be a blessing or ull know what to do better for your child. Good luck momma and don't let anyone hold you back.

[baby_72]

I know for the last your parents will accept you if they will see your baby.. Dont be sad..

[melissa_182]

I'm 18 will be 19 when the baby comes & honestly it hurts that my family turned their backs on me.

[TessieBoo94]

This is what im afraid of...the disappointment, disapproval and opinions on my situation, im so sorry this is happening to you! im only 9wks and 1day
Im 19 and ill be 20 in a 2weeks and ill be 21 after my child is born...i know age will be an issue for my family...i didnt plan to get pregnant but im not mad, sad or any of those, im happy that i was trusted enough with this big of a blessing

[melissa_182]

Thank you.

[specialmom]

That is really sad.  All I can say is to hold a place in your heart for her.  I feel like she will soften and come back around if she's been a good mommy to you up until now.  She's being cruel now for sure.  I'm so sorry about that.  I hope she will change her heart/mind and you both can heal.  peace

[melissa_182]

Thank you both, it's really hard for me because I was really close/attached to my mom & it tears me apart the way she treats me just because I decided to be happy & I'm making something out of my life..

[OctoberMommy2014]

I'm so sorry to hear that.. "/ that's such an awful, horrible way to treat your own flesh & blood.

I would NOT know how to handle your situation because I have the most amazing parents ever.. but I DO know that you've got to remain headstrong for you and your family now.. your baby relies on you.

you just have to know and accept that you did the right thing by at least calling her & holding out your hand.. if she didn't accept it, then that's her loss. she'll be the one to regret her negative ways one day.

good luck mama! ((:

[specialmom]

Oh, I'm really sorry.  We have visions of moms that they'll be these loving, nurturing caretakers our entire life.  it sure stinks when they aren't like that!!  Is she mad at you just because you are with your husband and having a baby??   Ugh.  I hope that is not the case!!  Did anything else happen?  

I always believe we have two chances at the mother child relationship.  One is when we are the child and with our mother and the other is when we are the mother with our child.  So, you are about to get the second chance to the mother/child relationship.  Be the mom you would want to your own little one.  It doesn't take the sting out of your mom's coldness but it will warm your heart in other ways.  peace