hello, i really need to know if i am pregnant or not..my story is kind of long but here it goes..okay, so two years ago i had my first child. Yes it was a regular pregnancy and everything was normal. A year and a half after my child was born i got pregnant again for the second time..but this pregnancy was an ectopic pregnancy so i had a surgery and one of my ovary was removed. After the surgery was done i really don't remember if i began to have irregular periods.I think i had bled for after the surgery and i was in bed with pain for maybe like a whole month or so. now my question is can i be pregnant now? For the third time? My last period was on December 24,2008. And i seriously don't know what is my number cycle..yea i know i don't really keep count..however, i remember that i have been gettting my period every other month. On the begining of January i have been having unprotected sex, but my husband and i been doing the " pull out method" . Ever since we had done it like four times , i still feel worry because i don't know if I'm pregnant or is my period late? Is my period coming soon? Yes, i have been feeling tenderness on my breast, body aches, urine most of the time, to me these symptoms feel alike. What is the difference? And yes i have taken pregnancy test but it's hard to read them so blurry and yet scary..please help me..i have been so depressed and stressed out and maybe paranoid? What is my problem? Thank for you time, really appreciate.