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My Thoughts

This is just me.. I'm gonna state a few points that I either agree or disagree with that I always see on this app. But again,  this is just me.

Porn: I watch it. My hubby watches it. We watch it together. Usually on those nights were horny & wanna be freaky lol. See no problem with that.

Going through your man's phone: Im all for it. You shouldn't always have to find something everytime u go through it. I went through mine a lot in the beginning because I felt that woman intuition telling me something wasn't right.  & it wasn't.  So each time I confronted him about it. Hes grown up now. & every now & then I go through it just to Make sure he's being truthful & I find nothing.  What's mine is yours right.  But if your gonna go though his phone,  confront him. Don't hold it in or it'll only Make the situation worse.

Epidural vs Natural: there is no better way to have your baby than to have it safely. Doesn't make anyone stronger or weaker because u want drugs.  I've had 2 epidurals so far.  On my second,  I tried going natural but pitocin kicked my butt. So I got the epidural. Point is, keep an open mind. Everybody has different experiences.

Castor Oil..etc. : That stuff can be harmful to you and baby for one. Two, just let your body have that baby when its time to have that baby!  If you wanna speed up the process a bit,  walk,  have sex, more sex but not the in natural stuff!

That's just me though guys. :)
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7157499 tn?1411821385
I totally agree with you!
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Yea guys these were jUst a few topics I see on here all the time.  So instead of answering them all over n over just thought whoever read this would know my view lol so many of u agree.  That s awesome
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Porn: Not me or my hubby's thing.. but to each his own! We both are very territorial and don't like the thought of anyone else being able to sexually satisfy each other in any way. But ladies, keep in mind every relationship i different, this is just what works best in ours!

Going through your man's phone: This shows some trust issues but I think also if you don't have anything to hide your partner shouldnt have an issue. My hubby and I snoop around in each others stuff but we're also open about it. We often joke about it.

Epi Vs Natural: I think each woman is different.. I do feel that the medical industry pushes drugs on women and that it is best to try for natural. But you're right, safe way is the best way! I'm hoping I can go natural but gosh I may just not have the will to do it! You're right, openness is best in this area.

Castor oil, etc: That baby will come when he or she is ready. Let that bun cook in your oven as long as he/she needs to!! Lol
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7758733 tn?1402589420
Agreed, also..

Absolutely right, no one on here can tell you if you pregnant. But who better to ask for advice than a site full of pregnant woman. Rudeness is uncalled for. This definitely ain't no relationship advice forum but that doesn't seem to be a issue.
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Here-here! All points, I agree on :) PS, after looking on the phone, all I discovered was a (healthy) like for lesbians (and yes, we've watched together on occasion ;) and more pics of his cat than me lol. Women tend to think the worst before looking.
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I totally agree with everything you just said!!
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I agree with you.  I understand why ppl get so bent about porn its natural. And im tying to keep mine in the oven lol  epidural im all for it:)
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