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7868606 tn?1410358984

curious about the father.

I'm just curious as to how many of you ladies are still with your soon to be babies father. Lol doesn't apply if your married.  :P and is it hard on you? I don't want to do it alone but feel it could happen at any moment... just curious.  
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I have been w. Mine for a year, not long to many but you couldn't imagine what we've been through. We are proud parents to be with a beautiful baby due in September! Love always conquers!
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6363715 tn?1394225781
Still with my man. Regardless every relationship is gonna have issues or your gonna fight. But it just depends on how mucj you love the person and how hard your willing to fight to be with them. Theres gonna b ups and downs alwayssss you just gotta push threw.
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I'm still with mine he's wonderful he goes to every appointment gets me anything I'm craving this will be my first baby but his 2nd child his ex won't let him see his son which s.u.c.k.s because my baby won't get know his or hers half brother
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7868606 tn?1410358984
Gypsylopez. The only reason I said married couples don't count was because in my eyes marriage is that commitment to family. You don't hear of a husband leavin his wife because she is pregnant with his child. It wasn't to discriminate to married couples. I do apologize if that's how you took it.
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I'm still w/ mines he's great, this is his first child but my second. He helps me out so much w/ my 3year old being that my child biological father doesn't do anything. He's already a great father to my 3year old son so I know that once our son gets here (Due April 25th), he's only going to get better. I don't feel alone at all thank God !
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Im 18, been with my fiance since I was 13. Im 5months pregnant expecting a baby boy in august & hes still with me. Were engaged & live together ; im thankful to still have him by myside since I can be a bit cranky at times.i Wouldnt trade him for anything through the hard times & ********. THATS MY BABY
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I'm with mine but we just got married in December! But we have a 2 yearold already before we got married! It was hard and we split up a few times over the past 4 years but it's been worth it! Tomorrow will be our 4 year anniversary from the first day we started dating!:)

We are in a really good place now since the marriage and it's been completely the best choice we ever made! Went from no job or house or anything
to a nice brick home he makes really good money and now we are expecting our second son!:))
All that since December 1st!:)

You don't have to be married to have a successful relationship with your baby's dad! We went through hell but we made it to our wedding day and we will be going for plenty more years to come!:) I just know it!
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I'm still wit my husband ever since I was 14 years old ha yea I was so young we have a son he's 5 years old and having a lil girl this Saturday :) been together for almost 9 years . We have our ups n downs but we still stick together no matter what n the love is still there n going stronger :D
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7673423 tn?1400599131
I got pregnant with my 1st when I was 16, only dated him 3 months! My mom kicked me out, him and his dad took me in. We had  a beautiful daughter. But we were young and life was TOUGH ! Constantly broke, no water, or electric. But we suck by each other no matter what. I got pregnant at 19
With my son, things were better but still HARD!   after my son was born we moved 1000 miles away from home so he could have a better job. We lived in a hotel because we couldn't find a house.we were broke and stressed.but never turned our backs on each other. We ended up getting a big house, with a huge yard and playground for our kids. He worked ALOT and I never saw him. I thought about leaving.I really did.but I stayed strong got my kids. Things got so much better, tho. Got engaged, he got a promotion, we were happy! Our son was then diagnosed with autism, but it made us closer!a team! 5 days after that I found out I was pregnant. He was happy!  So 3 weeks ago I married the LOVE of my life after 6 years of nothing but hardships! I know this is super long, but it's hope not to give up so easily. It will never be easy! Work for it! In the end it all works out!
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Why does being married not count? Marriage is justa long term ccommitment like any relationship. Our husbands can leave just as much as any boyfriend. . .
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6692462 tn?1409257870
Im still with mine, we planned our baby, the first time we got pregnant I lost it at 7 weeks, but now im 15 weeks and were doing great , we live together and plan on geting married next spring on vkay lol He is my best friend and my soulmate and were super excited to raise a family together(:
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im still with mine. im 19 (will be 20 in june) and he will be 23 in august..we're engaged and planned to get married next spring.  He has a 3 year old little boy from a previous relationship and this will be our first together, we are very much in love and the thought of being without him kills me.
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I am 6 weeks with second. Have a son 19 months old that don't know his daddy but with my second childs daddy and planing on marring him
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7248126 tn?1462826183
I'm still with my babys father. Known each other for 6-7 years and planning on waiting a few years to get married but he is always there for me when I need and we support each other and live in our own place
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I'm still with my child father. We just celebrated our 5 year anniversary together and expecting our little girl in June.. Hopefully we will get engaged soon but I'm not rushing the subject.
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Sperm donor bailed on me when I was 8wks. Told me he was buying a baby crib and actually bought a motorcycle. Lied all the time then expected nookie first time he tried I was done. I didnt need a loser like that. The next week I met the man who is actually going to be on the birth certificate. He has been there to rub every sore back,  buy for every craving,  find out gender, feel first kicks. She plays with him more than me. So technically not with sperm donor, but Tymber will never know another daddy.
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I am 17. I havent even found out for sure if i am pregnant and my boyfriend has already left.....
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Still with my bf and he helps out a lot with the baby 3 years strong n planning to get married soon specially before we have anymore kids so a wedding within the next year or so will be taking place :)
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6265786 tn?1386113658
been with my bf for 7years still going strong :))
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7745094 tn?1396429352
Im also with my baby daddy, we want to raise kids together, he is awesome guy :)
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My baby daddy dipped out at 7 months now I'm 33 weeks
Bad thing is we planned to have the baby.. all well ill be the best mom i can be
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7175822 tn?1393399513
Im still with my soon to be baby daddy, weve been together a year. Hes really supportive and helps me out so much. The only time we fight is over my insecurities, these hormones really changed me lol but, other than that we plan on getting married in a few years. Hes amazing :)
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My baby daddy and I were dating, we planned this pregnancy, at 5 weeks he told me to get an abortion because he had changed his mind or he would leave me.. so we split. I would never put a man before my kid
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Still with my baby daddy and hope it stays that way, he is genuinely so supportive
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