*Names*

[syddie50]

Ugh it's like every name I tell my husband he kicks out of the park -_- he doesn't like any of the names I suggest.  We have a boy name and I settled because he LOVES it....but the one name I fell in love with he says absolutely NO.
Aubrie Hope -girl he said no
Simon Brodie- brodie cause that's his first name and it's staying that way but....Simon.....really -_-
But I stay with it cause he loves the name so much...idk what to do...:(

[syddie50]

Well I guess I just need to stand up :/ maybe if I do tell him that since I'm letting him have Simon he has to let me have Aubrie. His sister is like trying to control my life so I have basically started ignoring her and tell her no to about every name she tells me lol. So I think I'm going to tell him the girl name Aubrie stays unless some other name catches my eye.

[Court199518]

You may feel like your being unfair if you say no but he obviously doesn't care that he's saying no so you eather come to an agreement or one of you suffer their are a trillion or more names out there just keep looking it took me and my fiancé up intell the day she was born to deside on out first baby

[Munchkinn94]

Whether they like it or not, that's their problem. It's your child and you have the right to not like a name your husband likes. He clearly doesn't see a problem with telling you he doesn't like a name. He can either compromise with a name you like or tell him he needs to change the boys name. It's not just his child so he can't just decide on his own.

[miracle_mommy2014]

dont feel that way. its not fair to you its not their baby. and they can get over you changing the name so name it what you want. they will get it over it and love the baby reguardless.

[syddie50]

Well that's kind of how we decided the boy name but we're not positive what we're having yet :/ so I can't narrow down gender names :/

[chloesmommy22]

My husband did the same thing but my girl had to have his grandmother's middle name so i told him he gets the middle so i just picked the first name and he loves it now

[syddie50]

I just don't want to disappoint him :/ or his family because I already tell them no to like every name they come up with cause they not unique or what I'm into ....I just feel rude :/

[miracle_mommy2014]

its not his families baby. it is their grandchild/neice/nephew/cousin so on. but its your baby. dont name your child a name you dont like.

[miracle_mommy2014]

yeah dont settle for a name you dont like. your gonna be calling your baby that name their whole life. its a hard decision. but if you dont like it dont settle for it....

[syddie50]

I know it's not fair but EVERY ONE in his family loves it and I can't just out of the blue say no...that's unfair of me -_- I just don't understand why he says no to every name ....

[Munchkinn94]

Don't settle for a name you don't like! You could end up regretting it or end up upset with your husband because of it. If he's not willing to compromise with you, you shouldn't with him. It's not fair.