VENT HELP!

[Mzkay03]

Ok.so im really in my feelings tonight, i.got married.Oct 12 and ive been with my fiance for awhile we planned to marry in april but bumped it up so when baby comes WE'd be married, i felt it.was right.it was what i wanted, but.today he is just acting so childish, he got mad because i said.he actually had done some work.at.his job, and he.said i was trying to be funny im like no u did didnt u, so he stops.talking to me goes.in living rm.then after awhile he says he's going to his moms to stay, im like.wth.all that, i.didnt.think it was that serious, im 32&4days, i dont.wanna deal with this craziness

[Mzkay03]

Same here..he will call.and im napping he gets an attitude, like he forgot im 32wk &4 days preggo..and in 5 wks have to be induced due to,,my,blood pressure..im just gonna ignore then

[KTowne]

My husband's the same, I'm a stay at home mom and if I take a nap (30 weeks 5 days pregnant) he gets cranky about it, I just ignore it and go about my business, he's acting pretty childish, when he stops I'd talk to him about it.

[Mzkay03]

i told him i didnt get upset when.u said all i.do is sit home.all day and do ntg so why.r uad,.and he.didnt.say..so petty

[Mzkay03]

Yea i called.him and tried.telling him it was a joke ntg serious and he didnt.have.to.act that way.and all he.said was.well i did let me be by myself...and im like oh ooook, smh

[KTowne]

My husband gets very offended if I make any comments at all about his work, even if I'm really just joking, he DOES work really hard and I know he feels like I don't appreciate him or what he does for us if I say it, so I always apologize, even if it was a meaningless joke to me, and remind him I appreciate him. He's probably feeling the pressure to provide and stressed with your baby and wedding coming up, it's a lot of big changes at once for him. We're on baby number 2, planned, and my husband sometimes still gets a little wacky. I don't think he handled it maturely at all, he should've just explained to you that it upset him, and you two could've talked it over like adults. It definitely didn't need to escalate into him leaving. Have you tried calling and asking him to come home to talk, calmly about everything? I hope things settle for you, our hormones drive us a little crazy sometimes, but try not to let it stress you out!