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No period but I am not preg what is this???

Hi we been ttc for the past 4 months with no luck. today is my expected period. I would know when my period comes few days before b'coz of the lower cramps. but this time no sign of any pain. I didnt get my period. so i was sooo excited to take my BFP test. OMG then here we go a Big -ive i took 3 test (ept/clerblue/first choice) all of them came as -ive. i was sooo upset. why is this like this? does anyone has the same situation? I never had an irregular period. what i should do now? I am confused. very sad. please let me know. Thankx :)
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Give yourself a few more days and if no period take another pregnancy test. Sometimes stress delays your period (stressing over TTC, for example). 27 is a great age to start to have a family.

Have you seen your doctor to talk about having a baby and getting a physical? Make an appointment if you haven't. And remember that not every woman ovulates 14 days after her period starts. Women actually ovulate about 14 days BEFORE their period should start (time frame between ovulation and the next period is called luteal phase). Taking Charge of Your Fertility is a book that may help you.

Taking a prenatal and folic acid if you are not doing so already is good preparation for your body. Eating more raw fruits and veggies (like pomegranates) can help increase fertility as well as eating shell nuts if you're not allergic. If you are overweight even losing 10 lbs can boost your fertility so exercise and drink plenty of water.

If you have not conceived on your own in 6-12 months you can contact your OBGYN for tests to see if something is hindering your ability to achieve pregnancy.
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1629746 tn?1299661507
I am as well as 27 yr old, and i am so dying to have a baby with my hubby. but dont know why i just cant get preg.
I dont want to feel disappointed again that's why i dont do the preg test as it failed already so many times..

i have no idea what else i can do now, but just feeling so down and upset.

I always ask myself how come i cant get preg while other women can get preg so easy! ??

I am now having a very very light period which is not normal to me but should i wait for longer time or what should i do??

Please help.
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thank you :) well, ya i was sad n' upset but now im a bit ok. yes i tried pre-seed. but didnt get preg. i read alots of +ive reviews. i had 90% hope on that. but ........... well, dont be discouraged from my story. you just try it n' let me know ok. Good Luck for this month:)
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367100 tn?1330914725
oh ho. i m sorry to here that. its really hard when u desperately wait for ur miss period and then.......................... i can understand. did u try pre-seed? i m trying this month
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OMG got my AF this afternoon one day late. so ttc AGAIN:(
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Thankx. sure i will update. Hope I am. lets see
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Thankx. ya before i buy anything i go for the reviews. as fas as pap goes .. i still dont like that process, feels sooo shy n' uncomfy :) but yes, i am defnitly taking an other one soon,
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I just did a review for the exact vitamins you are taking! Very cool. Definitely time for another pap smear whether you are pregnant or not. You should get one every year just to make sure. If you are pregnant they do a pap anyway but if you're not go ahead and get checked out.
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367100 tn?1330914725
take yourself time and take test after 3 days. and tell ur what did u get. good luck!!!i thin you are pregnant
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thankx, well, i did my pap 2-3 yers ago. it was ok. i am taking nature made prenatal multi+dha. i am not overweight b'side i am only around 101.5 i am not allergic to anything,so i can take whtevr i want. yes, i decide to wait for couple more days, to see if my period shows up. Thankx for the encourgement :) i feel better now.
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Thankx joyrenee, but im 27 n' feels like im older. i should plan for a baby 3 yers back. but unfortunatly we were not stable at that time(my husb always look into these )..so now, when we think that we are ok to have a baby, we try every month. past 4 months my period came on time. this time, no period. i'm worried kind of.. thnkx :)
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Irregularity happens and is quite common when you're TTC. Sometimes it helps to take a break from TTC and just have fun, sexy time that is completely unhindered, unscheduled and spontaneous. No charting, no temping, etc. Just have fun. ;-)
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