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Paternity concern...

I'm here not to be judged...here is my situation...based on my ultrasound at 7 weeks my conception date was set at October 17th and my ultrasound i had at 19 weeks was measuring right on track no dates were changed...i had my period October 3-7...I had sex with a friend October 8th but got back with my ex and had sex with him October 15 & 16...just wondering who would most likely be the father...i know i wont know for sure till dna comes back after the babys born...just need a little peace of mind...please help...
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I ovulate 2 days after my period ends. So not all women ovulate 9-14 days after. It depends on the woman and their cycle.

No way to tell till the dna test is done. Good luck.
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It's unlikely that the friend is the father. Most women don't ovulate until at least 9 days after their period ends.
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2075737 tn?1379447682
I'm thinking your ex since u ovulated so close to the time u had sex with him.
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Yeah im 25 weeks today :) Its not a fun situation to be in but im dealing with it the best i can...
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I would say your ex...my LMP was 10-11 concieved on or about 10-24...im due 7-17...im 24w tmr...hope this helps :)
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I was in your situation but luckily you know ur dates better then I did so I'm going with ur ex.
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1901977 tn?1333991726
Except some women do ovulate that early, and even women who are very regular can have a weird month and not be aware of it. If you follow the "regular" pattern, it's more likely your exes, but not all women do. I ovulated late, it's not uncommon to ovulate early or late.
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2075786 tn?1342908758
Tou wont ovulate the day after your period stops
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2075786 tn?1342908758
If your periiod started on the 3rd...you wouldve ovulated around the 17th......
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I really think your dates are too close to tell, sorry.
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The ex and my friend are both informed of the situation...so thats a relief theyre so understanding..makes it easier to deal with...its the uncertainty thats the hardest part...
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I would say ur ex
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I would say ur ex
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Girl, I feel you.. How are you coping though? Are u getting any support? I just want to tell you to be strong, i am sorry i can't give you answers to your questions. Have you tried the online conception calculators?
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