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Hey!!! Just had a quick question for you since there seems to be some confusion around here. looking4_anew is your other screen name. Just wondering why you told someone it was your twin when it says your name is Cindy on the profile.
well It's ok. I mean really we don't know eachother personally and you never know how someone really is.. so I wanted to share what I thought about it.
so it's all good :)
so it's all good :)
Not offended at all. Everyone has their difference of opinion. I hate typing things because sometimes it sounds like you're mad but you're not...lol.
And I wasn't judging you. I was just giving her another view point. Sorry if you misunderstood.
That's exactly why I wasn't judging. Everyone has their own experiences. I love being a mommy but I'm glad that I waited because the man that I am with today was definitely not the man I was with when I was 20. I also got to enjoy going out and going on vacation. Something I would of never been able to do if I had a baby at that age. My fiance's sister is a prime example of someone not ready. She was 25 at the time and just barely met her baby's father. She got pregnant and now after the baby is born is on public assistance, can't buy her daughter not one toy, she constantly leaves the baby with the grandparents and goes out drinking and partying every weekend. Was she ready at 25, nope, did she think she was, yep. I know that everyone is different and it worked out great for you. I'm glad because some women are just ready to have a baby at a young age but some think they are and truly aren't. I wish Cinda all the luck ttc and hope she gets all that she wishes for and if that's a baby then I'm all for giving her any advice I can. Good luck to you as well on conceiving your 4th. Wow, that's a handful, I give you credit because my 1 is kickin my a**...lol.
I am 25yrs old now and I am expecting my 3rd baby..... I know its hard work and I LOVE being a mother I had my daughter when I was 21 and I would not have changed a thing! I think having my children at a young age is better than at 31 or older. I know that having kids change everything but people also mature faster than others. I think that if she knows what to expect and thinks she can handle it than who are we to judge them. Its not like she is 13/14 years old! I wouldnt change a thing about my age, my kids, or my plans to start on my 4th baby when this baby coming turns 2!!!!
Good Luck ladies!!!!
Good Luck ladies!!!!
I wasn't judging her, I was just offering some advice. I'm not saying that I'm any better off because I am older....sometimes I wish I had my son a little younger given that I would probably have more energy. Unfortunately, I didn't expect it to take me almost 2 years to get pregnant. I love being a mom and it's the best thing I ever did but it is a lot of work. I know a lot of women think that it's all roses and sunshine and don't realize how much energy it takes.
I had my oldest when I was 19. I was married and financially stable. If you are ready for this life changing event, I say go for it. I love the fact that my son is almost 15 and God willing in atleast another 20-25 yrs my son will bless me with grandchildren. And to think I will still be young enough to chase them little boogers around. Not everyone was born to be a parent, but I know that is my place on this earth and if it is yours, please by all means pro-create.....Good luck!
I would LOVE a baby... I understand how a baby can change things, including a relationship... But I'm ready for it all....
I've been with my fiance' for years now.
I've been with my fiance' for years now.
Not judging you, just want you to understand that when you have a baby it changes everything. You are soooo young and I would hate to see you have to be tied down to a baby right now especially because you are newly engaged. Don't you two want to enjoy your relationship? I'm just speaking from experience. I'm 30 years old and my son is a handful. I never sleep, I can only eat if he lets me...my fiance and I have sex only like a couple times a week because I am tooo tired to even do that. We can't go out alone together unless someone is willing to babysit and if we can afford to do it. After the baby, we fought all the time. We just started learning how to deal with eachother, meanwhile before the baby we had a great relationship and had been together for 4 years. It puts a lot of stress and pressure on a couple. If you are preggers then congrats because I know that's what you want but if you're not, consider waiting for a little while and enjoy being 20.
she's not been on here because she said she wanted to stop the TTC and focus on her wedding. It's in September.. She tried for a while I'm guessing because she just felt so depressed when she didn't get pregnant...
That IS my twin. Her name is Cindy.... I'm CINDA.
I can't force someone to believe me. But, yeah my name is awful close to Cindy.
Some ppl mistake it and call me Cindy.. But, I'm not cindy..
CINDA
I can't force someone to believe me. But, yeah my name is awful close to Cindy.
Some ppl mistake it and call me Cindy.. But, I'm not cindy..
CINDA
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