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A blog friend of mine has been trying to get pregnant for 16 months while struggling with infertility. They've spent about $16,000 so far in trying to get pregnant. She's had surgeries, uterine problems, PCOS, used Clomid, and a few IUIs. This past one was an IUI as well. Today was testing day for her... and it was a BFN. I feel like crying for them, my heart hurts for her empty arms. Please keep them in your prayers!
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i will be praying for your friends.

I have recently got like that with some people here.  I talk to them all the time and it's like I have known them for years....when really it's just a couple of months.  

It's heart breaking when you try so hard and it never happens....I pray that God will bless them with one very soon.....
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373683 tn?1218997212
I am sorry that htey are having such a problem...My heart goes out to them... Have they found thing's wrong with her Clinically besides the PCOS ? Have they considered not only adoption, but maybe a surrogate ? Someone to carry the baby for them... With her egg's and his sperm ? That way it would be they're baby.......
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456970 tn?1287587447
have they considered adopting?  
They seems to have SO much love to give... if they aren't able to have one of their own why not give that love to a little baby that needs a family as much as they want to have one?
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Thank you, Mea! It's amazing how close you can become with people you've never met in real life. Blogging is way different from forums, though, because you get deeper into peoples' lives and understand WHO they are. I think that's why it's so devastating to me because I really like this person and I wanted her to have a baby SO bad. I see what she's gone through, all the money she's poured into this. But she's strong and she's a believer so she's putting her trust in God.
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364288 tn?1300144506
Wow how heartbreaking!!! I will for sure say a little prayer for them!!!
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