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355049 tn?1272256388

OT BUT I NEED TO TELL SOMEONE!!!!please read

Hello ladies,

So for the past few days my dearest husband has been telling me that on  Thursday morning he has a company meeting... I first thought it was odd because he had a meeting just last week! So from the begining I have been thinking something was not right.... Well his boss is always taking the guys paintballing and shooting riffles and ****. and my DH has never gone always said he didnt want to leave me alone... Honestly I have 0 friends all my family lives atleast 6 hours from here.... So this morning when he was getting ready I thought to my self he is not going to the meeting. So I pretended like I was sleeping and when he left I checked to see who he left with. And he did leave with the right person only he said the meeting wouldnt last long and he had to be at a job site at 1pm and he would be back home before that and we would go to lunch. So at 12:15 I called him, I could hear guns in the back and he kept saying hold on a minute. So here I am at home with 2 babies and I'm 13wks 2days pregnant and he completely lied to me and kept telling me that the boss man lied to him... what kind on idiot does he think I am.... We went through alot of problems when I was pregnant with our daughter in 2003/2004.... We got back on the right path only for him to lie to me some more! I am just so emotional and MAD right now I have no one to tell and I can only hope that someone reads this! I feel sick to my stomach right now I am so upset with him!AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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play his game . when he does come home, for good today. get out of there go shopping, get a pedicure. go watch a movie do something and dont tell him where u are going dont answer his calls. let him sweat it out and feel the way you feel.
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omg girl get your purse and go do ur own things! ur hungry go and get something to eat. dont wait up for him, maybe when he gets home and he realizes ur not there he'll know he's in big trouble!! i say u sit him down and talk to him and tell him to get his thing and his priorities straight!! good luck =)
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355049 tn?1272256388
Now here it is 1:3pm and I just called him to see where he "is" and guess what!!!!
He stopped to get something to eat!!!!!!! What the H*** I want so bad to leave and go somewhere BUT where will I go????? AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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It sucks the guys can get away and go paintballing, and escape from the kids. but you never get anytime to yourself. you 13 wks you need your husband support. and you should just lay it out to him to pick his  priorities b/c obviously he is showing you  that his family is not #1. i'd be seriously upset if i was you as well. but try not to stress u and the baby out...
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