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Okk..

So my child's father seriously thinks The reason I've made the choice to put him on child support when the baby gets here is because he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me! I've seriously been going back and forth with him all morning!! He's called me all kind of names, involved his family(he's 30!)...the whole situation is messy...sorry guys I just needed to vent... Does me being  stressed out..effect my baby?  
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Look on the bright side. Being that u arent married or anything he really has no rights with the baby and he will be forced to pay child support. You have the upper hand and if u choose not to speak to him your entire pregnancy its ur choice.
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7998980 tn?1407262519
I fully understand what your going through.  Try your best to keep things civil for the baby though . :) goodluck hun .
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Thanks ladies... I'm still early on in my pregnancy and were already going back and forth about what's bound to happen in the future.
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7998980 tn?1407262519
Just relax as much as possible and try not to think about his ignorance :)
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7998980 tn?1407262519
Stress is not good for the baby , but talking about your problems relieves stress so you should be fine :) also hes stupid . Its because he has an obligation to take care if that child and you deserve help and you want to make sure he does what hes supposed to and you get that help .
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Yes stress affects your baby. Baby feels what you feel.
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