Please help! :(

[WhiteJasmineRose3]

I was online one day and my intuition told me to search my MIL and FIL. I found out my FIL is a sex offender and my husband nor the dad has said anything! I am due with a baby girl next month and I am hurt and beyond angry at my FIL. Should I not allow him to be near her I have no idea what to do? My family advised me to stay away I feel so uncomfortable knowing he's a pervert :( what would you do? I'm shocked and confused

[WhiteJasmineRose3]

Thank you I really needed opinions everyone around me was acting like it's no big deal and I was overreacting. I feel more confident in my decision of never seeing him again and she will be okay with just one grandpa even though he's my step dad he's a way better grandpa and not a creepy perv

[aac1992]

First of all, I would be very upset with your husband for not telling you this information. I would keep my child far away and personally I couldn't be around someone who tried to rape their own daughter or any person cchild or adult.

[ElaineP2828]

Ew, that's really upsetting! Especially for your own and babies safety, I wouldn't let her see him, ever without you there, I do believe people can change and he may never be a threat to your daughter, but for her safety its better not having her around him.

[WhiteJasmineRose3]

Well I'd never ever leave my daughter alone with him and I think my husband feels the same way. It's just awkward for me because the dad always insists we come over or something and I only went to visit for my husband now I guess my husband will have to go alone

[sdhx2]

I would keep baby away!!! Does your husband share your concerns?

[bevnunez]

You probably shouldn't have your daughter around him... explain that to your husband that if you left your daughter with him and he hurt her sexually how would your husband fill about that his own dad raping or trying to rape his own daughter I mean if this man would do it to his daughter what makes him think he want try with his granddaughter it's freaking sick that a grown man could touch a lil girl like that... goodluck I hope the best for you n your lil one