Am I having another miscarriage?!

[azgirl7]

I have only one child and this summer I had two blighted ovum miscarriages at 6 weeks.  I asked the doctor to run some tests but she assured me I was fine because I had a healthy pregnancy less than three years ago and she said to try again.  Well, as usual I got pregnant on the first attempt again.  I'm only 4 weeks and 2 days right now.  I had some backpain yesterday but paid no attention because I know it's normal.  But today I noticed some pink discharge when I wiped.  OMG!  Am I having another miscarriage?!  I've been crying so much all day and now I'm having cramps and I don't know if I'm having them from stress or having another Miscarriage.  This is so terrible and horrifying!  I had two miscarriage at around 6 weeks. Has anyone else gone through this?  Do you think I'm having another miscarriage? Is there any hope?  My old doctor used to call back during weekends, and this doctor doesn't even take messages during weekends.  I don't want to go to ER unless I really have too because I went there with my last miscarriage two months ago ( I was in terrible shape) and we ended up with a pretty big bill.  

[azgirl7]

Thank you everyone for your kind words.  According to my doctor I had a chemical pregnancy which ended around my period time and that's why I got my period two days late.  So, two blighted ovums and a chemical pregnancy within a few months!  I'm so scared to try again, but I really want a second baby and I'm also scared that if I wait for too long then it'll get even harder because I'm getting older.  I hope it will work next time.  Thanks again for responding.  It helps to talk to others because no one knows about my miscarriages other than my husband and my mom because it feels too painful to discuss it and my mother-in-law is driving me crazy asking all the time how come we are not having a second child.  I started telling people that we are not sure if we want to have a second child or we are taking a break, but isn't it rude to ask this type of questions?  I know they don't know what I'm going through but I wish everyone just stopped asking this painful question.

[SliverCheer]

You might just have hcg from the last pregnancy that made the hpt positive, or your body could just need some time to recover. I know how heartbreaking it is. I had a blighted ovum discovered at my 8 week ultrasound and I opted for a d&c in june, I should've been 10 weeks but there was no fetus and the sac was only measuring 5 1/2 weeks. In August I got a + hpt but started bleeding at 5 weeks pg, but when I went to the doc my blood was at zero. So they think I got a false positive or it was chemical. I am now 9 weeks pregnant and have seen the HB! so Hang in there and it will happen when the time is right!

[UmYusra]

I'm soo sorry huni, so far no one really knows the cause of misscarrige so your Dr won't be able to tell you much. Don't be discouraged of trying again my mum had 7 misscarriges and yet gave birth to anther 7 healthy babies. Try take it easy and dont stress your self (i know it's easier said than done). I hope all goes well with you  

[azgirl7]

Thank you and best of luck to you!  I don't think I'm as lucky though because I started bleeding now.  I went to the doctor this morning and they told me they need to run another hcg test because my hcg was only 27.  I wonder if I'm even pregnant.  They did blood work on Oct. 28 to check progesterone and hcg and said I wasn't pregnant.  On Nov. 5 I did home pregnancy test because I was one day late and it showed positive.  So, they did another blood work and it showed 27.  Now I'm waiting for more results today.  The weird thing is if I didn't do home pregnancy test I would've just thought that my period was only 2 days late; I wouldn't have even thought about the possibility of another miscarriage because it feels like a regular period right now with no clots or anything.  I'm so discouraged of even trying to get pregnant now.  I get pregnant on first attempt each time and it just doesn't stick for some reason and my idiot doctor keeps telling me that I'm fine and doesn't run any tests.  This is a second doctor and i don't know how to find a doctor who can actually help me or at least tell me what's wrong.

[thickm]

dont stress, i miscarried in july 09 and am pregnant again, around the time i was to have my period i had light pink to dark brown discharge and i freaked out! i will be 7 weeks tomorrow and at 6 weeks i seen a baby and a nice heartbeat!!!! breath sweetie, i know its hard to not worry cause i still worry everyday!! but just be hopeful!! baby dust to you