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Rude people ! Vent other mommies comments

So I was at the mall today I entered a store , and one if the employes asked the other hey do you miss bring pregnant ! Her answer was HELL NO ! So she asked me details how far along ? I said 39 weeks , she asked sex I said I was having a girl ! Then one thing let to the other and she started talking about how good luck with labor I said yes thanks then she said No really , that she couldn't stand people that wanted to do it all natural she said you don't get a price for doing it natural you still get the baby Nd that's it ! Then she pointed out the fact that I'm petite ! It made me do freaking mad !
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Yea people are so rude ! And I know because I'm 21 ppl think it was the biggest mistake and my life is ruined
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6927110 tn?1393318669
Oh my, the things some people say! It's like they don't have a filter between their brain and their mouth. Of COURSE natural birth is going to hurt! But if someone wants to experience it that way then let them go, encourage them. Not spill your jealousy and doubt all over the place. And if I don't believe I can do it all natural and ask for pain relief don't call me weak (it's happened)
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Just wait til u have your baby. Then random ppl think its ok to tell you how to take care of them! I had a lady telling me what to do and not to do when my daughter is 16... She was 1! Lol I'm like I think I can figure it out when time comes but thanks for the advice I didn't ask for!
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Shot*
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Ugh same here when I was working some would say the stupidest things like its gonna hurt and um no s h I t it is I know that and ur too young to be a mom its gonna be hard like wth? You don't know anything and like if I can't handle being a mom. Or im dumb to get myself in this situation knowining ill be fine. Im going all natural too because its my choice hate when others say screw that im getting the pill or c section to make me feel stupid for going natural.
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I feel the same way! I want to go 100% natural with no drugs at all and everyone says "you think you can but its not possible. Just because you have tattoos and sh*t doesn't mean you can handle labor" seriously?! My personal body art choices have nothing to do with this choice! From my research I feel that for me being a 20 year old healthy woman all natural is the best option. I didnt bash you when you told me you begged for a c-section and changed doctors to get one because you didn't want to "ruin your p*ssy" (yes I know someone who did this) so don't bash me because I want to go all natural. And dont even get me started on breast feeding!!!!! Some people....
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6927110 tn?1393318669
*Women who can are.
*Mouths
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6927110 tn?1393318669
Um i have major respect for women who go all natural! I personally Don't think i could do it but the womeb who canare so strong and inspirational in my opinion! Your size doesn't matter, our bodies were meant for this. Ugh.. negative people need to keep their mouth shut.
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Yeh gotta agree some people's brain doesn't seem to be connected to their mouths at all. I had a check out lady other day ask when I'm due i said 9 weeks and she said wow that's going to be a whooper then. I was shocked at how rude a stranger could be :)
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7001988 tn?1392134797
That's nuts. They don't knw u nor did u ask for their opinion.
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I hate when people make rude comments!!! Im a ftm. Its not that you get a prize for doing it natural, some people just don't want to be drugged up and really want to experience natural labor.
I honestly think its jealousy these women feel. I have tons of women come into my work and the majority say the nicest things and share their experience with me, but I do have the ones who make rude comments. They may not miss being pregnant bc of the pains but they probably miss the attention!
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