Scared & Concerned

[Scaredof3]

I'm n a relationship w/ the love of my life. He has a son n I have 2 kids myself. Neither of us want anymore, but I'm expecting. I was on clergy control, the Depo to b exact, but here I am pregnant. I'm scared to tell him n thinking of just raising this child on my own. Abortion is not an option because I love him so much. What do I do?

[mommyanddaddyd]

Awe just tell him. You may be shocked about his answer. It did take two to make the baby :P If it is worse case scenario you still get this awesome little one. tell him your fears as well.

[jamie4321]

if he is the love of your life you dont think he would be just a little happy that your haven his baby?i would tell him and see how he takes it and if he cant take it then you can raise it on your own but at least give him a chance to be happy r sad let him choose for him self its his baby too i know we as woman would want to know if we had a baby out there just tell him you might see that hes more happy about it than you think youll never know how he feels if you dont tell him

[Heatherm4]

Do you think he would actually leave you if you told him? Maybe it's a blessing in disguise. You both don't have one together I take it? He may just be happy about it. It's nothing that you could help, you were on birth control! Be straight up with him and see what he has to say.