no of course that is NOT wrong!!! Moms need to spend time with thier babies if given the chance! I have been a SAHM with all mine too:)
I am sure it is just hard to find good childcare that you actually trust the persona dn hard for ababy to get to know someone else is why they acted that way, or they are just plain not worth your time! Our lives as moms give us so much it doesn't need explaining!
ammanda~Thank you he is Mommys lil Angel!
I am a stay at home mom and have 4 kids, 3girls 7, 5 and 2 1/2 and then our baby boy. I truely look at him and just cry because I feel like this time is just slipping through my fingers. Can someone please invent a shot to keep him lil. If this feeling never goes away I gonna go insane, Im scared that after it isnt a baby anymore that it is seriously going to send me into major depression! Im stressing about it already uugghhh.
30something13~That saying is sooo very true! I actually lost a couple friends because I was watching their kids and decided after I had him that I didnt wanna do it anymore. I know this is our last and want to cherish every second with him. Well those friend got upset and we havent talked in 2 months. But I guess they werent worth keepin around anyway then. I just dont wanna look back and regret not spending as much time with him as possible. I dont think thats wrong.
My DH and I have 5 all together from previous marriages and the youngest was 10 when Henry was born, he is now 5 1/2 months and we talk about another one and I am sure will but I HATE the feeling too. I ask all woman and moms everywhere I go if the feeling ever goes away to ahve a baby and they all say no:( I know the next will be our last or something may happen and Henry is our last and I cry over it when I see him. It went so fast when I had my others I had 4 by the time I was 23. It is sooooo different now as I am 32 and I don't care about the house and actually hirling a house cleaner so I can just be with him. I play with him all day long and pack him everywhere I go. I wear him in a sling everywhere at home and when we are out. He is always playing with my hair and loving on me. He gives kisses and hugs now too and I just take it one day at a time
remember the saying:
Cleaning and scrubbing
can wait till tomorrow
for babies grow up we learn to our sorrow
So quiet down cobwebs, dust go to sleep
I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep.
I have that on a thing that has hung in all my nurseries!
First off, I gotta tell you your son is sooo gorgeous!!!!
But yes I know how you feel, my son will be 7 months old on the 11th. and hes my only baby. I dont want anymore. and i feel like he is growing way too fast. I love when he laughs and sleeps on my chest, I have a 2 year old niece that wont cuddle or anything shes just rude and cocky. and i cry at the thought of Cole being like that, I want him to always cuddle with me :(
My daughter is 3 months, and it's depressing me. I hate that she's getting so big and growing up so fast. I'm eager for certain things, but I just love holding her and seeing her do all the things she does now as a baby. She's likely to be my only one, so I never want her to get bigger.