Who are you choosing to be on the delivery room?

[Fairymary]

I've decided I only want me and my boyfriend in the room .and I kinda don't want to call people and tell them I'm going into labor until after the baby is here and me and my bf have time to spend alone . Is that selfish ? Who are you choosing to be there ?

[lumadea]

Boyfriend And Mom :)

[mommabear27]

For me it was just me and baby's dad,   my mum was on speed dial for when baby was brn,.     His sister wanted to be there but I was like no freaking way lol x

[runnergirl868]

My other half and my mom...its her first grandbaby too and if any of my younger sisters or my younger brothers wants to come in...they will not...i want my mom there in case hr passes out like my first preg. Appointment when i was about 9 weeks along and had to give blood...now im 18weeks tomorrow and dont know the sex of it yet

[val_mommy2b]

My mom and boyfriend maybe my grandma I'm sure she'll force her way in there somehow lol

[heatherr322]

Last time it was just my fiance and his mom kept wanting to come in but i made it clear to my fiance if he let her in he was leaving lol. My parents waited in waiting room and when they asked me if i wanted to have.a csection cause baby wasnt coming i had them come in to talk. This time is a sched c section so just my fiance.

[DanniB18]

My partner and my mum.... my dad and a few others can wait in the waiting room  and ill let them come in once me and my bf have had a chance to see our son and cuddle him and what not...

[1stTimeMom2B]

Im having my hubby there and might bring my mom along since hubby doesnt speak the language fluently. Giving birth in Sweden btw :-D

[ashleyarenas]

Just my husband and I. I want mg grandmother in the room to do the pictures but she has to be in the corner not seeing everything. Haha then once everything is settled let the rest know.

[mommytoobe1]

And I'm definitely calling everyone after.

[mommytoobe1]

I was planning on it being my fiance, my mom, his mom and our grandmothers but after reading everyone's post I might reconsider my decision..

[Dlacey]

Just my boyfriend

[lindyJay]

Just my BD and me. My dad wants to be there but no ducking way! He stresses me out and trys to control situations so he wont know until after.

[babywhalen2]

My husband and my best friend who was my coach with my first. Not sure if we ll call everyone when im in labor...ladt time they were all waiting around, and it got annoying having to have hubby run out with updates all the time...

[Mrs_Baze]

For my first it was just my then boyfriend (now husband) and the medical staff. Family and friends came in a few minutes after my daughter was born. That was really nice. My daughter is 6 now and I am thinking about having her with us. Not sure about that yet, I need to talk to her about it. But no mothers or in laws, heck no! My mom had terrible birthing experiences, while my mother in law is so sappy and irritating; they are the last things I need anywhere near me while I am having a baby!

[liteskin]

I think It will be the doctors and I

[Rubysf]

My husband and mom and if my little sister wants to come in then I don't mind but that's it. My husband's sister asked if she could be present. I nicely said no sorry. But calling everyone else after baby is born is a good idea. That way we have our personal time.

[kyonamarie]

I'm having my husband, his mom because he is the oldest child and its her first grandchild.....and my mom because I'm her only daughter and this is her first grandson she didn't get to see my niece born

[mommytobe1018]

My babydad n my mom my son cant be there :(

[Fairymary]

Thank you all ! :)

[Michele, Katy, TX]

Totally not selfish at all!  And this is a very personal decision for everyone.  This is YOUR baby and YOUR experience.  So do whatever makes you feel comfortable.  Don't do what makes others comfortable.  I have only ever had my husband and that's what I prefer.  That is OUR time and time for bonding w/ baby.  Others can see baby later on, if that is what you prefer.  Again, a personal choice completely, but just don't cave for others.  Do what is best for you and your baby and your BF.  Good luck!

[lovejayden3310]

My mommie has been there for everyones births from my sister,cousins,aunt,sister in laws lol only natural i wanted her there with me :) abd my hubby was also there my mother in law got stuck at work :( they would not let her out i was sad i wanted her there also .. so with baby number 2 on the way im hopping she will be there abd of course my mom and hubby again

[arnitia]

Just my bf and I. I want his mom and my mom there but he wants it to only be us so im okay with that.

[Ariel_21]

With my first I had my daughter dad my mom and my two sisters. This one I just want me and the baby dad in the room my mom says she want to be in there like she did with my daughter but they annoyed me last time walking in with chips and food and I'm not having it this time. So just me and him

[estela92]

I would of loved it to be just me and hubby unfortunately he wasnt able to be there so my mom was with me the whole time