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Single Moms...

My boyfriend and I just broke up... He was not a great person, and the fight that occurred today ended in a liquor bottle going through the bay window of my house... He has some serious anger issues, and I couldn't do it anymore... I am 13 weeks along, and now I'm going to be a single mom... Any words of wisdom? I am scared and alone...
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Thank you so much!
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Yea u definitely have to look in the best interest of u & ur child if u think he's unfit. It ***** that he won't have that relationship w/ u or ur child but that's the choice he's making. It's good u have people to depend on, it may not be what u expected but it'll work out for u. Just focus on the wellbeing of u & ur baby.
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As bad as this sounds I don't think I can trust him when the baby is born... I have seen him go from very happy to throwing things against a wall... I don't think I can trust him, it just scares me... And I have wonderful support from my parents, I just never thought I would be a single mom is all, but he doesn't seem to want to change or even make the effort to change or get help...
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Aww, sorry to hear that. Do u think u two can co-parent without being in a relationship? Or are u really just gonna have to go through this alone? Regardless I'm sure u have family/friends to offer support, but u'll always have God as well. Prayer definitely works, so I just leave all my problems & anxities to him : )
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Just focus on you and baby and what is best for you guys. I love my babys father but i will never let him back into my life because its not what is best for my daughter. My friend let her baby daddy in and out and her son grew up with problems and grew up hating her and the father. Being a single mom really isnt bad. It takes a community to raise a child not a mom and dad
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I'm trying so hard... I love him but our relationship was toxic, he was so negative and I couldn't be around it any longer... Thank you. I will pray and give my all into this!
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It will be okay girl... just pray bbecause god got you... I was with my son father for 3 years I left him and he left helping with my son... people change all the time just be the leader you want your child to see...
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