do i comfront him or not... help!

[sara_lou]

So me and my oh have been together 5 yrs and i have always trusted him.. even tho at the start he kissed another girl and i found out through his fb i still trust him. He started a new job 6months ago and recently went out for drinks and i got a gut feeling to look through his phone so i did. I saw mesaages on there from  girl at work .. just sorta flirting. I feel like im over it but was rly hurt! dont think anythin happened. But do i tell my oh that i looked and saw them or just leave it.. please advise..

[GordonBaby]

All of that is going to linger with you, possibly turn into resentment, and then likely one day you will just explode. Get it out somehow, confronting him doesn't have to be a bad thing or an argument. This is someone he sees on a regular basis at work, and that may dwell on your mind as well. It will sooner or later make you crazy. BUT, if you feel you have gotten over it and want to avoid any confrontation then it would be up to you to keep it to yourself.

[sara_lou]

Wer both honest with each other but dont look through each other things.. well he may look though mine without me realising but got nothing to hide.. when i saw the message i went  into a hormonal mess lol and had high blood pressure not sure if thats why. I kinda know the girl and she in long term realtionship and recently found out she pregnant. But i duno how to bring it up, i feel bad for looking through his phone.. thanks for replying .. :)

[Ashdub07]

^^i used to do that with my husband and he would get mad cuz I'd catch him texting hoes but then he'd turn around and snoop thru my phone and get really mad cuz I don't talk to other men so he would feel like a dbag lol

[LaurenMH]

My husband knows I look through his phone lol he looks through mine too we also have each others fb password and email password cuz we dont wanna argue so we give each other no reason to. But if I were you id confront him before it goes any further.

[Ashdub07]

If its bothering you do not let it sit. It's best to get things out in the open :) good luck!