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So emotional!!

I dont know why, I dont like my husband right now. I feel like he doesn't care for the baby. And I am so emotional, cant sleep last night, and cried a lot! Is it just me? Or is it bcause I am pregnant? I am 11w2d now! :(
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I'm 11w3d and I beg for sex lol I rarely get it cuz he's always so tired from work...but we're very emotional right now...I.let myself get really worked up and when I step back and really look at the big picture I realize I still love my husband with all my heart and I wouldn't want anyone else to be the father of our baby :)
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It goes away don't worry. I'm 28 wks and I want to be near him all the time. When I was in the beginning of my pregnancy I couldn't stand him at all. Like I was disgusted by him. I didn't even want to cuddle or anything.
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I think maintaining a safe and healthy sex life with your partner is just as important as them making us comfortable.. we can't expect so much understanding when were putting our needs over theirs as well. Make time, take naps, and whether you can have sex or not (some women find it painful) you should still be presenting intimacy, just touching, kissing, lying together nude or maybe even just getting him going. Its important ti make the father feel important as well, especially at a time where he really can't understand. You're not very far along just yet, and trust me, my first tri was miserable. But, I never was upset with my boyfriend for not understanding or wanting more sex than I did, because its hard to experience the same thing as we are. They aren't growing, they aren't sick, they aren't tired all the time. To them its almost unfathomable. So, cut him a little slack and try to make an effort to keep the bedroom alive, and it'll also make him more willing to helo you in return. I know it sounds bogus, but, no matter how in love he is with you, that's generallt how men are.
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Going through the same thing with my husband.  Except he doesn't want sex from me when I want it. But when he wants it he gets mad at me for not giving him any. I really jus want to tell him to put his **** in his ***. Lol
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I'm going through the same thing with my fiance, he just doesn't get it.
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Same with my boyfriend and he doesn't get it.
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All he thinks is sex, and I am not on the mood, bcause I feel I'm so tired, and he didnot want to understand!
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10973934 tn?1414701423
I know how you feel. I'm going through the same thing.
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