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So tired and stressed i just wanna cry!

I know its just hormonal but I'm losing it! Anything anyone does or say bugs me to no end! My son gets on my nerves more then he usually does! My husband's not helping me do things is really starting to get to me. He told me I'm the laziest person alive today and I tried explaining that its not that I don't want to its that I CAN'T do things alone. It kills me to do so! I got so.pissed I chucked my phone across the room put.my shoes on and stormed outta the house and walked down the road sat for a bit and my MIL was coming home and stopped to ask what was wring and I got a ride back. Idk what to do! AND no matter how.much sleep I get I am exhausted! I'm still I'm active labor and should be on strict bed rest til Tuesday when I go back to the Dr but my husband makes that impossible! I can't do it! I have at the.most 5 days from tomorrow! But I just want him here NOW!
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I will have to definitely talk to.him.but its like j matter how I try talking to him.he gets defensive and denies any and everything :(starshine my C-Section date is in 5 days!
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Ive got 5 days till due date, but will probably go over.. and I know exactly how u feel, I can't sleep,
I struggle to walk,it hurts to sit or stand....etc etc...
And my hubby is great and understands most
Of the time.. but he's started new job after 3 years
Of no job..... so I've been doing most of everything
around the house,altho he tells me to leave it and
He will do it.... but half the time he forgets or
he's tired too when he gets in... blah blah... we
Also have 2 demon boys 3 and 4...
My feet are so swollen I can't get shoes on, I'm
Starting to get pins and needles in my hands which
Is making driving hard work. I just wish I could be
Induced.... get it over with... get baby here and
I'd hopefully feel better... hubby would get some
time off... and my parents would have the boys
For a while...
But for now I'm thankful hubby been and got a
New dishwasher so no more washing up...yay.
Anyway rant over... hope we all feel better and give
Birth soon. X
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Maybe u should express ur feelings ti him tomorrow when u are a little rested and not so hormonal and let him know exactly how u feel and let him know ur gonna need help because ur about to have a new baby plus a toddler
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I'm trying but its hard cause I haate being home alone and on top.of that he just text me and said try to.go.into labor cause I don't wanna be at work tonight. Really?
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2072659 tn?1340597373
Aw hun it will get better!! Try to relax, maybe take a shower and put ur feet up
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I'm just sitting here crying IDK.what is wrong?! I hate this so much I have mounds of clean clothes in front of me needing to.be folded and I can't bring myself to do.it! I hate feeling like I'm in this alone!
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I know its ridiculous! My husband is working over night tonight and I can't sleep when he's not here so.I'm.up cleaning and its stressing me.even more!
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Argh know how you feel. Ive got 12 days till due. My bd calls me lazy if i dont do something straight away or wanna cook dinner. Which i end up having to do anyway. And im tired and only sleeping maybe 4 hours a night. Its like hello im almost 39 weeks pregnant! But he just doesnt get it :/
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