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Soon To Be New Mom!

I have so many questions. This is mine and my husbands first child.I am 5 weeks and 3 days. Everyone around me is so excited and as am I. But I just dont feel pregnant. I feel as though this is not real. I keep telling myself I need to see or hear to believe!  And im so not wanting to have sex at all! I almost want to be left alone! Is this bad lol?
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Yes ik how u feel. My bf nd I was in shocck .. we didnt reaally belive it . Untill you see your baby during the ultrasound thats the best feelin ever. Thats when u start belive it This my first pregnancy too im 31 weeks.
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Thats how I feel! I k ow exactly what you feel! I felt an overwhelming feeling of wanting a child of my own. And now it happened and I cant wrap my mind around it lol! Its crazy ill see my peanut Aug 21 ill be ten weeks! I think its so far away im hoping I can at least feel pregnant because I dont feel nothing just a bit cranky and loosing my appetite all the dang time! Congrats by the way! Its an awesome feeling!
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I feel the same way. I don't feel pregnant other than a few symptoms.  I have taken 4 test 3 urine and 1 blood test, all positive and I still don't feel pregnant. It seems I pee a lot more and my boobs hurt. I have some cramping and I'm emotional. Idk what it is I guess when I see and hear the baby on the 14 it will hit me that this is really happening every thing I ever wanted is happening.
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Thank you lady I feel alot more excited! Definitely hope I have an u/s today!:)
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I'm a first time mommy as well, and I have lost my sex drive. Luckily I have a supportive and understanding husband. But the thing that made me believe my pregnancy is when I first felt my baby move:) I'm 7 months now.. And things got real! You will get there soon :)
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I had very mild symptoms, so what really did it for me was the first ultrasound. The little bean had a heartbeat! Lol. Felt even more at the 2nd ultrasound. Omg it looks like a baby! And it has a penis! Haha. No worries. I felt the same. The little milestones will make it feel real and you will fall in love. :)
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Thank you! And I hope thats exactly how I feel! Its still so not real.
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Im starting to feel the same way. Hes been nagging me, I just imagine myself punching him in the face! I just cant help but to think he's going to hurt me if I do. I've been feeling little pains. But I've been told its very normal
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No its not weird. Through most of my pregnancies I have not wanted to be touched. I was in shock too with both of my pregnancies up until I saw my first ultrasound. Symptoms usually don't kick in until weeks 6-9 or not at all. Congratulations by the way!
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Nope completely normal. I've lost my sex drive completely. I'm 14 weeks and I normally just do it cause I feel bad for my hubby.
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