Stressed. Worn out

[gm1031]

I know this has nothing to do with my pregnancy. I just need to vent. My husband is bi polar and adhd. He threatens me if i leave him he will never let me have our baby im 18wks. Hes pulled my hair, jumps on top of me, tries to bite me, holds my face, chokes my dog till he doesnt breathe, hits me with pillows. I have punched him for twisting and holding my arm while spitting and holding me down till he let my arm go. Im sure we will argue again tonight he is pissed. I am scared of him hurting me and i lose the baby

[agrell]

Honey you def need to get out of there...maybe instead of going to class one day pack all your stuff go to your moms than go to the police station and file a report and ask for a restraining order...

[shannonmarie1082]

You really need to leave. That is not a safe or healthy relationship for you or your child. There has to be someone who can help you. If nothing else go to a councilor at school and see if they can help. There are many battered women shelters that will protect you as well. I'm praying for you.

[trying43]

Call the cops!!  They will arrest him and issue an emergency order of protection where he can't come near you.  There are tons of resources available for you.  Call victims assistance(they can help u sometimes financially) or family services they can help u find housing, financial assistance, food, daycare for after the baby is born etc.  Also local churches will provide assistance too(catholic charities)  as far as him getting the baby if u have him arrested there is no way he would get the baby.  You need to get away from him so he doesn't hurt you or the baby.  Good luck to u.

[gm1031]

I never thought i would sound like those women who get abused and stay. I feel weak. This is sad and i shouldnt have to go through this but he makes me feel as if i deserve it. I know that i dont. I dont feel any better venting cause i know ill see him soon.

[squigglesquish]

Get out of there!!!

[gm1031]

I would leave him. My unborn son comes first. Just he is dangerous. If something does happen i have to wait to call the cops. Ive run but he caught me and said im never going to be with anyone else. Hes 6'2. He has weapons. I have 2 guns. He has put them to his head when ive tried to leave. I cant live with that burden. Im so lost and emotional being pregnant.