OK, I feel weird posting this so please be gentle w/ me

[blessedmomof3]

We are considering using a surrogate for our final attempt at having a baby. But the cost is so high and we havee spent so much on fertility treatments that wee are realy frustrated. I live in Missouri and lost 2 pregnancies last year and just realy feeling desperate. Does anyone have any suggestions as how to finance this or what my options are? I mean they have finacing options for fertility treatments and grants for adoption, but nothing for surrogacy. Anyone, Please Help.

[JoyRenee]

I live in KC but I'm not really sure. I have thought about being a surrogate but because of my own recent fertility issues I probably wouldn't be able to do it in the future, not to mention we're trying ourselves.

I really really truly wish you the best of luck and don't feel weird for posting this!

[kikicoates78]

I wish I had somthing to offer, but I am at a loss. Are you sure it is your body causing the m/c. I'm assuming you are talking about using your snow angels? Most m/c don't have alot to do with your uterus, it has to do with somthing in the genetic code not matching up, if that's the case surragacy would just be a waste of money. It"s like the egg is programmed for failure, wether it be in you or someone else, Whatever you decide or try I hope you have your bundle of joy at the end of it! Good Luck!