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[bonita1182]

I was inseminated on feb 12 , I took a test on Sunday...it was positive :-):-):-):-):-):-) I couldn't be more happy. I'v been trying the last 3 yrs since I lost my daughter at 8 months. Sothis opportunity for me is more then a blessing...Its a miracle!!! when I told my husband, hedidn't seem to excited. He looked at meand said you know your not supposed to get excited bc you are going to miscarry, I justsaid to him me and the baby will be fine, just gotto do this right! last night he told me I better not have a miscarriage bc that was the first and last chance I got to have his baby. I didnt know how to feel, I was more then scared an crying, then I prayedabout it, told myself that I will be just fine and so will my baby. So to all you moms that are going threw the same thing be strong, bc you will be fine!! keep your head up...

[RockRose]

Bonita,  your husband sounds terrified of another loss.  I know it seems to come off as kind of cold,  but it sounds like fear to me. He's scared to lose another baby,  and scared to watch you go through loss like that again and he is trying to protect himself and you.

Best wishes.   You don't say what happened with your other baby,  but prayers this one will work out great and you'll have a healthy full term son or daughter in 9 months!

[snrich7420]

I am so happy for u!! I kno its gonna be super hardbut try not.to stress nd worry about wat ifs... I will keep u nd ur family nd new bay In my prayers I hope all goes good for u :)