Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
9095217 tn?1408287670

Tired of excuses

I have been with my boyfriend since u moved to nc. I love my man with all heart. I live with him. When first started dating we sat a timeline on when we'd be married and have kids. He is 33 and I'm 21. I just starting to feel like a hoe. He talks about our lives like he wants to be together forever but wtf. I don't want my son to have a different name from me. What should I do?
3 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
Yeah, I agree in a way. I just don't recommend people marrying JUST because they're pregnant.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Tell him if you are not married when the baby is born then you would only feel right to give the baby your name. I would only give my baby my name but we are married. My husband insisted we get married when he found out i was pregnant because he knew I intended to give the baby my name and raise the baby my way no exceptions and no negotiations... I am kinda sorry I married him now it's been 9 years almost.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
My husband and I have a 12yr gap as well.  If you're really serious and think he is l, give your son his name.. it will be yours too!! :-)
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy Community

Top Pregnancy Answerers
13167 tn?1327194124
Austin, TX
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.