Update to pregnancy dilemma

[danni2386]

Well if anyone read my last post i was frustrated at 27 weeks pregnant with my husband because hes lately been obsesed with nude pictures of women. and ive known my husband 20 years..weve been together 6 married nearly 2. and hes neeever been more than a maxim kind of guy. and i wrote about how i saw my husband on some sites of nude women on cars.  as in naked nude. i was disgusted. im sorry no judgment to those who do it at all. but ew. it made me feel awful about myself because here i am pregnan looking different naturally. not fat or overweight just about 7 months pregnant. so i understand it may not be anthing more than beautiful to him. not sexy or hot. ok...no problem. but really? it jsut made me feel awful. so long story short...we finally have the long awaited fight about it...on phone and i hang up on him telling him i give up on him..that im disgusted etc...we have alot of issues but i always try and communicate with how im feeling..and if im ever dramatic i later calm down and always try to talk and say how i feel without nagging. i definately try.  and so id hung up on him....pretty much unloading exactly how i feel. and said i give up. that if thats the route he wanted to go was p**n and nude stuff i was out. sorry i left a guy obsessed with that stuff..and i wont be with one now. i told my husband you want to look at maxim go for it. thats a guy thing ok..and its not too racy. i get a little butt hurt bc i dont look like that..but im fine with that stuff...not the other. so eventually he was texting me telling me i wont do it anymore...i wont look at nude or naked women anyore ..or on my phone. but im having a problem believing hell stop. how would i know?  

on another note..has anyone else experienced severe pain in both feet. i was swollen in one foot for a little but not anymore. and for the past 3 weeks it feels like i broke the tops of both feet. i limp everytime i walk..and they hurt.

[danni2386]

oh wow..thanks for heads up.

[having_twins]

On the topic of your feet.... seriously get them checked out. It took me many months to get a doctor to listen to me that i was in a lot of pain. It got to the point that i could not walk and was crying throughout the day but yet every doctor told me it was normal with pregnancy to have feet and joint  pain.  After two trips to the er and two trips to an orthopedic foot doctor they finally took an xray and my foot was fractured and has a lot of bone loss. I have osteoporosis possibly due to pregnancy.  Hopefully, this is not your problem but like i said don't let them tell you that it's normal make sure that it is. Good luck to you

[rachyrou]

My boyfriend made the same promise two years ago and I've caught him on ten occasions breaking his promise leaving me hurt and even more insecure. Just don't trust him until he proves it for at least a year! Yes some women are fine with it but like me you are not. I hope your man keeps your promise.just dont get your hopes up..men are from another planet