Venting

[Mzkay03]

Me and my fiance just had a fight...it was stupid really, I feel like he never sticks up for me to anyone! Everytime we have an argument he runs away and leave instead of getting things straight, i starting to feel like I dont wanna be bothered with him anymore, im 12wks, and just dont know wat to do,

[Mzkay03]

so true girl, because i had old friends texting, calling to check on me and he didnt like it so i cut them off and stop talking to them, and he seems to have a problem doing that for me,so i still havent talk to him since that day and i really dont plan on it, dont have time for the bs

[CantWaitToLoveYou]

i was in kind of the same situation but flipped. it wasnt an ex, but i would still communicate & text with a few dudes who i knew liked me & would try to get with me if i wasnt with my bf. he would complain about it all the time & i was just like "who cares how they feel about me, the point is i have no interest in them so it shouldnt matter". but then one day i thought, is it really worth making my bf upset & feel insecure just to talk to these random dudes for a lil attention? & the answer was no. i live him & only want him to be happy. his feelings are more important to me then that. so i cut them all of 100%. if your man doesnt love you enough to do that, you need to find someone who will girl!

[Mzkay03]

Thanks everyone for ur comments!!! ;)

[Mzkay03]

Cantwaittoloveyou I so feel u! Thats exactly what I was saying to him and all he said was I was a drama queen!! And they dont have any kids so theres no reason for them to talk especially about me!

[kennimae92]

I do the exact same thing that he does. When my husband and i get into an argument i tend to walk away so that i can cool off. I believe in choosing your battles wisely so because of that i dont want to say something in the heat of the moment and regret it. After him and i have both cooled off we then sit down and talk about it because the last time we talked in the heat of the moment he said a bunch of **** that he wished he wouldnt have said to me. As for the ex i hate that because my husband and his ex fiance were talking and we had a big discussion about that one because she was trying to split us up so she could be with him etc. Long story short he told her off and she is blocked from both of our facebooks.

[niqua123]

He shouldn't have no communication with his Ex unless they have a child/children together...!!!!

[CantWaitToLoveYou]

if he feels like its worth hurting you in order to talk to his ex, theres a problem. if he truly cared about your feelings he wouldnt hesitate to cut her off. shouldnt even be a question.. ex's are a no-no. especially talking about you to her. put your foot down & demand to be treated how you should or consider if this is really want you want. you deserve better than that from a man.. especially if youre carrying his child. & trust, what he wont do another man will! ;)

[Mzkay03]

ok so i tried to talk to him this morning and let him know how i felt and he says he is tired of cutting people off for me, see the arguement was because he still has conversations with his ex and ;ast night he had one with her about me, she was asking him somethng, and i told him he dont answer no questions bout me to anyone, but im highly upset and just want out thats bs, ur suppose to cut off certain peole wth

[mazlisa]

My husband does the same thing when we get into a argument he will walk away. And I had a talk with him because to me I felt like if he walks away it means he doesn't care. And he told me he walks out the room so he can think things through without over reacting and to cool off. I told him to learn to talk to me about how he feels instead of walking out. Just have a talk with him and see how y'all can resolve things out.