how do you leave

[samiihyamommy]

How do you leave your husband, when its something you've grown use to, he's bringing me down. I'm losing my faith, acting out of spite because I'm hurt from all the wounds he made in the recent past how do you leave someone when your all they got in the state? I do love him but its not enough he thinks trying means not cheating.

[MindyS2979]

I can relate w/u on this one in so many ways. I was w/my x for 15 years and have 3 kids w/him.  I put up with physical and mental abuse w/him for so long i got use to it. We moved to Florida about 5 years ago and had no family or friends here at all. In the middle of our daily arguments he decided to punch me in the face and broke my nose and gave me to black eyes. At that point i was done and wanted to leave but had no one and no where to go. So i stayed like an idiot. About 5 months later i get this text at work saying Shelbi (our daughter) isnt going to be able to go to school for a few days...i beat her butt (not that nice of words). So when i got home i find my daughter w/bruises all over her body. Head to toe. I told him at that point u want to beat me thats fine but u dont touch my kids. I had him arrested and cple days after that filed for a divorce.  I left him high and dry, he had no job and no place to live and i didnt care. I had no place to go either or friends but i was working and found a place to live. Moral of the story i guess, if you are un happy and feel you should leave do it now before it gets out if control. You'll find your way threw it all. Its hard and emotional but you'll get threw it and come out a stronger person in the end. Good luck and if you need to talk to someone who has been there. Message me.

[starshine355]

been there done it.... it took me over a year to realize what I had to do... it was the best thing I
Ever did....
Be strong... confide in someone you trust , if you
Can.... get all the support you can too. I was lucky
And had no kids..it was just me and him..and he
Made it easy....he walked out in the middle of a row
Drove off....so I threw a load of things in a black
Bin bag... and bits and bobs and I just left.He
Never even fought for me.... no tears,no flowers
Etc etc.....   be strong and good luck. X

[tmhw]

Parkersmommy is right, eventually you just get so tired of it that it's easy to leave. At least that's how it happened with me and my ex-husband. I honestly just woke up one day and realized I had had enough and I was done.  If you leave before you're really ready you'll just end up going back, I know I did. It stinks, but be strong!

[LindyNjose24]

I've been thru that n I know how hard it is but one day ur gonna get enough n leave, it's gonna drag u down until one day u will realize he's not worth it. But no one can tell u how or what to do cuz ur not gonna listen I kno I didn't until I seen it for my self what every one else told me

[VaniDavila]

It is difficult to leave someone you love, but as you mentioned you've gotten used to it so that will make it difficult. My best advice is get out now, if that's what you're really want. I know it will be difficult at first, but you can do it!

[parkersmommy]

I completely understand. I wish I could tell you but I can't bring myself to do it so I don't know what advice to give. I keep telling myself I will eventually get so tired of being hurt I'll do it.