in desperate need of help..

[Jlobabie]

I had my little one abut 5 weeks ago! my fiance has BEGGED non stop for sex and i tell him no because my 6 week check up isnt even tell next week so im waiting for intercourse to get the OK.. Well we messed around yesturday and he fingered me and permformed oral, PLEASE NO JUDGING ME , well today i feel very in pain, i feel like im gonna start my period soon, its very light cramps but im achy and cramping and the higher part of my back hurts, and i pressed down where my uterus would be and its very hard... Can someone tell me whats happening? i know you wouldntknow but any ideas? could it be an infection? :(

[thirdandlastbaby]

Hunny if you got close or reached orgasm that makes your uterus cramp. Just like while pregnant it causes contraction like cramping. Its the same thing. If you all have sex it will be the same. And it may be both cramping from sex/orgasm and your period coming on. Take some tylenol and take it easy today. If you want to have sex it is fine to do so as long as you feel up to it, just make sure to take it super easy.

[doulamommy]

Most women don't wait all six weeks. There's a lot of different things to consider though. If you tore or had an episiotomy you'll hurt worse for longer than if you didn't. It's okay to play around a little but don't be afraid to stop if it starts to hurt.

[spurlock13]

My suggestion would be to call your doctor I wish I could help I had a c-section with my first and didn't do anything for 4 months. I hope you are okay

[shellc428]

You pushed a baby out 5 weeks ago! It's going to be sore! I've had 2 and with the first we waited 5 weeks with the 2nd 3-4 weeks. It will start to feel better.just hold off until your 6 week appt