I'd say theres not much chance that you conceived on 21st November. Going by that dating scan they are very accurate at dating the pregnancy. Going on a normal cycle if you were 9 weeks 1 day pregnant on December 30th that would mean the you ovulated and conceived APPROXIMATELY 7 weeks and 1 day before that. My calculations put that at November 10th when the baby was conceived or around that date, between 5th -10th November i would say. If you had conceived on November 21st then this would put you at 5 weeks and 4 days. Hope this was helpful.
The only way to know for sure is to do a paternity test when the baby is born. Good luck!
All babies develop at the same rate until 13 weeks. Early ultrasound dating is EXTREMELY accurate.
The u/s is the most accurate judge of your due date. They can't go wrong by taking u/s measurements. usually your last menstrual period just gives them an idea of when you are due. Nothing exact until an u.s is done. It sounds like its definitely your boyfriends =)
Good luck