What would you do?

[want2beamommy2387]

I am still awaiting goold ol' AF no sign of her yet.. i miscarried Dec 11th 08 right.. and the OB said to look for a period around like 4 weeks from teh day started bleeding which was the night of the 9th .. well i went into the OB for check up after miscarriage on dec 23rd said had a cyst on my right ovary was lil bigger then normal.. we figured i was about to ovulate it was almost 2 weeks after miscarriage so hubby n i stayed away from intimates kinda just trying to give myself a rest cuz go the green light to start trying again immediately if i felt ready.. which i did and do.. well the 31st of dec i had some spotting.. i thought period was starting but was very very light had crampin n that.. woulda been when the period was suppose to start had i not got pregnant.. but was not normal OB thinks might have been Cyst popping..
well werid thing last week around 6th or 7th i had a lot more mucus/dishcharge was watery/sticky i was WTF this looks like the fertile stuff i get when im bout to ovulate.???? bit i figured i'd already ovulated back aroudn the 31st when the cyst popped.. my hubbys bday was the 8th of Jan so we bd'd a few times that day.. of course ;) well monday still no period.. i was like well what if that spotting on the 31st was implantation bleeding??! so i took a Preg test and it came back neg Tuesday of this week..
Yesterday i had A LOT of mucus/discharge really thick and creamy.. and when i went to bed that night i had a t-shirt and it felt like it was maybe rubbing my boob raw it was hard to explain i'd touch my boob and it didn't hurt or look raw but then id basically be sore again when the shirt was down.. i was just walkin to the restroom about 40 min ago and was like i have a bit of a headache today.. and i about started crying i feel completely lost..

So what do u think??? maybe i ovulated late due to cyst or something? how long should i wait before i call the OB and say hey uhh i haven't got a period yet and im going crazy here??? i'm tempted to call her today but just feel like she'd tell me its not been that long and probably tell me its possible i ovulated on the 8th which in that case i'm gonna be waiting even longer..

ehh  i just wanted some imput. thanks ladies!

[sweetangel7]

After a miscarriage it can take weeks and weeks for your cycle and everything to get regular...Hang in there...wish I had more advice, but I'd chalk all of the cm and stuff up to your body recuperating from the mc.

[want2beamommy2387]

Thanks for replyin to my post i think im just gonna try to not think about pregnancy and all that for the weekend.. if AF doesn't show up by the 23rd i'll test again.. by then i'd be 20 dpo from the 8th.. so hopefully so positive if i am and if negative then its time to talk to the OB.  Thanks again

[Seas27]

I am sorry to hear about your loss. You very well could have o'd on the 8th. Also I have heard when you have a large cyst sometimes you do not O at all that cycle. I would call and just let them know your concerns and maybe they can give you a blood test to see if maybe you are pregnant and it's too soon for an HTP to pick it up. I hope this helps, but it's hard to say hun. GL to you!