What's up Wednesday??

[Mumita]

What's up today?  Anything new, exciting, venting....use the space to say anything!


Nothing much here, just waiting for O....whenever that happens!  Nothing new in the real life either.

Let's hear what you've got going on!

[JoyRenee]

Thursday- wedding anniversary (four years!) and Halloween party at our church for the kids
Friday- pizza at my SIL's and Halloween "trunk-or-treat" at her church
Saturday- Payday and grocery shopping

As for tonight? Just made tacos, about to give the girls a bath, and put them to bed (they go to bed at 7!). Then it's anyone's guess. Working on jewelry, wrapping gifts, cleaning, reading, bed!

[ashiepooh]

LMAO

I surely don't plan on going to get them ahaaha

I hope they don't find my house lol

[sweetangel7]

Let them wait...or walk lol

[ashiepooh]

Oh I cut the MIL off from my kids.  That was the only time she has seen my son, and it was soley for my dh.  He is 18 months old, and my daughter is just about 29 months old, and as far as I am concerned they have no grandma.  Ahaha!  My dh seems to think I'm taking it to far with her, and I looked at him as said this...

"I'm taking it too far?  Well, what if she kills your kids, then what?  Should I not sue the living sh!t out of her?  Should I not beat the living cr ap out of her?! "  

And I think he may see it my way.  He can have a relationship with her, that's fine.  She is a munipulative b!tch!  And that would be one of the 3 reasons I have no relationship with my own mother.  

Oh and all those relatives have yet to show up at my house, I really think their sitting at the airport waiting for me to pick them up!  LOL  They had called me earlier telling me their sitting there waiting, and I laughed and told them to get a taxi...LOL  

[sweetangel7]

I can't imagine what Ashiepooh is going through!  I'd be rude and say no =)  And, I'd cut the MIL off from the kids...she CANT give them stuff they are allergic to!  Ugh!

Things are going well,  kids are crazy at school...Halloween usually has this effect on them!  I'm finally getting a break from some of the fatigue...I've been getting up early and doing a pregnancy aerobics dvd (it is Denise Austin...you either love her or hate her...I love her, dh hates her!)  My grandmother is coming from VT this weekend for Christmas shopping...should be fun!

[Kels123]

Thanks so much for the information. It was just weird because I always brush AT LEAST twice a day, i'm very anal about my mouth, i floss in the morning and once at night and use mouth wash after i brush at night. It was so weird that this started happening. I don't think my gums have ever bled unless I did something stupid and jammed my gums or something. But thank you for the advise, I think I use a generic brand of listerine, so maybe I will try the actually Listerine instead.

[ashiepooh]

So true!  Ahaha I think I should demand being cooked for lol...but they'd likely make something I can't eat.  EH.Oh I think i'm getting amnesia, I forgot how to cook.  Hmmmm, lol  maybe i'll make all vegetarians meals.  They soley eat red meat, so they may want to leave!  *wishful thinking*

[LauraB78]

You should see me.. Even *not* pregnant I could sit on you and hurt you!!!!!!!!! =P

I just PM'ed you

[debgunn23]

Well not much going on today. I finally have a day off :) Im going to watch my usual ghost hunters tonight-T.A.P.S. I look forward to it every week. My husband is going to spend some time with me and we are going to make some homemade mcgriddles..yummy!  I havent even figured out what im going to dress up as for the halloween party! ugh, i guess i better figure it out soon!

[Mumita]

I would cut all contacts with your MIL. She sounds like a real ****.  Its one thing to mess with you, but her Grandkids?!  I'f F'ing kill her.  That's just ridiculous!

Anyway.  Glad to know how everyone is doing, I'll try to be around more....

Seems like everyone is tired...I'm tired too.*yawn* but I'm going to spinning class with dh :/  gotta work my butt off, since I've been ttc'ing I've gained 10 pounds, its enough, I need my body back unless I get pregnant.

[Avanaar]

Well, I had my weekly chat with Mom and Gma.  =-D  Yay!  I felt bad tho b/c DH was home on lunch when they called.  I *hate* talking to anyone on the phone if it takes time away from being with him.  ; ;  But he understood 'cause he knows that this is the day they call.  He's such a sweetie.  <3

Then I uploaded my pics from last night's trip to Vala's and made a slideshow that I posted on my blog.  And now, here I am on MedHelp!  lol  I should be getting an email sometimes soon from my Mom about the baby shower.  She told me on the phone she was going to finish working on it today and send them out.  =D  Woot!

Ashie ~ Well, now I totally understand why you're having a bad day!!  I hate when people show up unannounced ...especially when they come in packs!!  That's just too crazy that they expect you to put up 20 of them and cook/clean/entertain them for a month!!  You have your own family and life ...a pregnant mother of two children does not need the added stress of crazy relatives!  They should be the ones cooking and cleaning for *you*!!

[ashiepooh]

I am on the verge of doing so.  LOL  I think she really only needs to push one more button and she is going to get hit LOL  

[Michele, Katy, TX]

Yes, bleeding gums is very normal during pregnancy.  So, don't worry.  I don't know how often your brush, but if you don't already, I'd make sure to do it at least twice a day.  Also, Listerine will helps tons.  It does burn, but the lady at my old dentist's office swore by it and she was right.  She said to do it 2-3 times a day.  She said I would only be able to hold it in my mouth for a few seconds at a time at first but to work up to 30 seconds and I did.  It will help with the bleeding and the swelling.

[Michele, Katy, TX]

I probably would punch her :)  Wink..Wink..

[ashiepooh]

You know I asked him about it yesterday when he came home from work, and he dropped his mouth like what?  I think his mom planned this and didn't tell us.  But there is not way in hell I am cooking them a thanksgiving dinner.  Ahaha  The MIL likes to make my life miserable, so I am going to tell them all that she is cooking dinner for them all!  

So let me tell you how she loves to make me miserable...  LOL

First here is what I am allergic to, so you'll understand a lot better...  
Lemon, Lime, Orange, Pineapple, Tuna, I refuse to eat red meat, and there is some herbs and spices i'm allergic too..

So this is what she does.

At my WEDDING  she makes a fRicking Lemon Cake.,....  HELLO?!
At my WEDDING she makes every food there Red MEAT......  DUR!!
I basically had nothing to eat at my wedding thanks to her.  
At my BABY SHOWERS she makes pineapple upside down cake....WTF!?
She also COOKS tuna, tuna casserole, anything with tuna or meat in it, everytime I come around!

So my son is allergic to Peanut Butter....  For his birthday, SHE makes a PEANUT BUTTER CAKE!
Good thing, I tried it before I even handed it out to anyone.....
My daughter is Lactose intolerant, she decides to feed her normal milk, and my daughter Vomits all over the new carpets we had just gotten.....
My daughter is allergic to BENADRYL & this weird Juice....And his mom decides she needs to feed her this juice and then BENADRYL!  

I mean my god....seriously?  She is something else.  I just wanna punch her in the face!  

[Kels123]

Well for some odd reason, my job is really busy today. Usually Wednesdays are typically dead. Hopefully it will slow down a lot though. I do have a random question though....is it normal for your gums to bleed during pregnancy? I dont even know if its related, but the past two days they have bleed when i brushed my teeth. It's rather gross I must say. Anyone know anything or what I can do?
Thanks ya'll!!!

[LauraB78]

I would kick my DH A$$.. What the heck is he thinking? That is insane!

[AnitaRFrith]

HEY!  Long time no see!  Today I'm at work.  My mother in law is here too.  Shes a nanny too.  All the kids play together.  So all is well.  

[Michele, Katy, TX]

You go girl!!!  My husband would know better than to volunteer me for anything, let alone, something like that.  That is just crazy!!! I'd go ahead with the plans I already had too.  There is just no way....

Oh, and I have family that think they are allergic to everything too.  So annoying....Anytime we have anything with all of us (which isn't very often thankfully) everyone gets told not to wear perfume blah, blah, blah.......It's just crazy!!!

[ashiepooh]

So I have a vent.  Cause I had this bomb dropped on me yesterday morning.  

Today, (I was informed yesterday not asked btw..)  I have 20 out of town guests who are coming to my house, and they are staying until the Saturday after Thanksgiving.  Will also be back the week for Christmas.  (Oh I should mention this is my dh's relatives too)  Anywho, I got TOLD i was having to cook a huge Thanksgiving dinner, and cook dinner every night and breakfast and lunch for everyone.  Also that their all staying at my house!!  WTF?

So I was cleanign all day yesterday, have to go shopping this morning and to a doctors appointment tonight.  But yesterday I had to clean every sheet I had, cause I'm not giving up my bed for anyone, LOL....And I had to go buy pillows, extra blankets, 5 of those inflateable beds, their traveling ones queen and king size...  

I kind of pissed because why do I have to stop all of my plans, for them?  Especially when I wasn't even asked?  I had plans to go to Thanksgiving at my dads, lol which I still am  planning on doing.  Screw cooking all that food.  They said they have a list of food for me to make HAHAHA Yeah RIGHT!!  My kids have allergies and I do, and everything this family is about, is about every one of those allergies.  So i'll leave my dh here with them on Thanksgiving, or send them over to his Grandma's.  This is crazy.

[Michele, Katy, TX]

Well, I am not very happy at work these days.  It's just too long to type but basically, I am the admin supervisor for my dept.  Well, I used to supervise 2 girls, but they are both gone now.  So, now I am doing the work of what used to be done by 3 people and it still seems like it's not enough.  I was here on Sunday from 2:30 p.m. until 11:20 p.m.  Yep, I pulled into my driveway at midnight and then turned around and left at 6:00 in the morning to come back to this place.  Plus I have been coming in a bit earlier and working through my lunch and can still barely keep my head above water.  Everyone wants everything right now and everyone's stuff is important and priority!!!!  Ahhh!!!!!!!!!!!

My back is killing me and I don't know why and I can't do a damn thing about it.  There is a possibility that I could be pregnant, but it is too early to take a test, so I can't even get an x-ray.  It's is just horrible and I can only take Tylenol.  I took 4 yesterday and it didn't touch the back pain.  I have used heat too and although that feels good, it doesn't help with the pain so I am very frustrated. FF says not to test until 11-8, so that is still 10 days away and I don't know how much longer I can stand this.  It's hard to take care of my kids and work with the pain.  It feels good to lay down flat, which I of course, can't do very often.....well, really until bed time.  Sooo......there you have it ladies.....that's my vent for the day......

Have a great day ladies!!!

[bluegenie2003]

Isn't the wind horrible??  I'm on the Eastern Shore, and we've had wind warnings on the Bay bridge for the past couple of days!

[NicMom]

I'm exhausted today! My son was up all night with a bad tummy ache so I've been up since 2am. On the bright side it gave me time to work on his halloween costume. I hate sewing and have been putting it off. Other than trying to keep my eyes open I'm just sitting around waiting for AF today.

[jenntanis]

Well, I"m really busy with work today.  Yesterday, I had an all day training, so I"m trying to play catch up.  Plus, they started a new computer program on Monday, and my system didn't like it, so I spent most of the day on Monday, in the office, which I hate.

I'm waiting patiently for O to come as well.  Apparently, I really can't do this BBT thing because I'm always awake before my alarm goes off to take my temp.  I just don't sleep all that well lately.  We'll see what happens tomorrow.  Running out of OPKs so I guess I need to go the pharmacy today.

Last night the wind was blowing so bad that it kept messing our cable up.  I finally went to bed at like 10 or so because I couldn't stand the sound and picture going in and out.  Plus I was exhausted from waking up for a 2 hour drive to my training yesterday, and an hour drive home.  I hate morning traffic in the rain!